Kissed without warning?

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I was looking back at one of the first couple photos of my boyfriend and I. One of the photos was the first one we took which was after he 💋 me in front of everyone.
Now when I remember the situation, I do realise that he never asked me to kiss him. I wasn't even expecting it. We had a very strong sexual tension going on and he just came on to me after being too cosy and smooched me out of the blue.

He laughs about it when I mentioned it saying I deserved it.

Was this normal?
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GabiAbi84
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Do you mean is it normal for your boyfriend to kiss you without asking?
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Anonymous #2
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I was looking back at one of the first couple photos of my boyfriend and I. One of the photos was the first one we took which was after he 💋 me in front of everyone.
Now when I remember the situation, I do realise that he never asked me to kiss him. I wasn't even expecting it. We had a very strong sexual tension going on and he just came on to me after being too cosy and smooched me out of the blue.

He laughs about it when I mentioned it saying I deserved it.

Was this normal?
I am not sure, different people just do different things. Some boys ask, other get it over with or some just want to all of a sudden kiss you especially if there is sexual tension. I wouldn't think much of it it really just depends on what people are like and how they deal with different situations
However, how do you feel about it?
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You were dating, he probably thought it'd be alright.
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Sounds normal to me
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I hear #MeToo music.
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black tea
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Why does everyone want to be a victim?
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Not normal. I personally provide a 5 second countdown before kissing my girl.
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hajima
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I propose you draw up a contract that your future partners must present and have you sign and date before even looking at you, so you can make sure it's consensual.

Nice bait though, people are already falling for it.
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(Original post by black tea)
Why does everyone want to be a victim?
Sympathy's intoxicating.
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There's nothing more romantic than announcing you're going to kiss someone.
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You both agreed to date each other.. its only a kiss like nothings going to come out of that, it’s not good to over think about it coz you’re going to end up only thinking abut this and magnify it
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(Original post by JustOneMoreThing)
I hear #MeToo music.
Never. Hes my bf and I love him.
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