Split up with bf for uni but now not going but he doesn't want me now

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So basically broke up with my bf as I felt it would be too much of a stress to be in a relationship long distance however a lot of my classes are taking place online so I will barely be at uni I asked my bf that we should try again but he has texted back that he doesn't Think he can trust me no more how do I convince him?
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you dumped your boyfriend and are now surprised that he isn't ready to have you back with open arms?! LOL
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I think he will. Just give it time, and don’t blow up his phone
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maybe just leave it because its clear he doesnt want you or you can try and make jealous




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I don’t think you should try to convince him. It’s just messing him around, if you broke his heart because uni is more important (which I absolutely don’t judge you for, sometimes it’s the right thing to do) and he had to start the process of getting over it, and then you’re back like surprise I love you again that would really screw with a persons head. I’m sorry if this is harsh and I’m not judging you in any way, but I don’t think hoping for him to come back to you is healthy. I know I wouldn’t go back to someone if they dumped me because of circumstances and then the circumstances changed. Sorry x
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(Original post by Wannabevetnurse)
maybe just leave it because its clear he doesnt want you or you can try and make jealous




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Anonymous #1
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Well he's just texted again saying he can't come back :bawling:
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Well he's just texted again saying he can't come back :bawling:
good for him, he has self-respect
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Lol you broke up w him and now you want him back, I'm sure the guy has got higher standards than that.
You chose to break up w him so accept it and move on, stop begging him to come back
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Well he's just texted again saying he can't come back :bawling:
I’m sorry that it hurts but he is doing what’s best for him, so you need to respect that x
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I love him :bawling:
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I love him :bawling:
if you did, you wouldn't have dumped him
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So you dumped him so you could go meet other guys at uni, and now you're not going you just want him so you're not single. Sounds harsh but I think he can do better than you. You obviously don't really love him that much if you're so quick to drop him and it's a good job he's found out the kind of person you are now before he wastes any more time on you. I wouldn't go back to being your back-up, second best choice either.
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I just want him back I can't lose him
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Shock of the century!
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I just want him back I can't lose him
Womp womp.
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At least be happy that someone you love has had the satisfaction of turning the tables.
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I just want him back I can't lose him
you only have yourself to blame
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I just want him back I can't lose him
Well I’m afraid you have, move on. If you’re this upset go and speak to someone.
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