Split up with bf for uni but now not going but he doesn't want me nowWatch
So basically broke up with my bf as I felt it would be too much of a stress to be in a relationship long distance however a lot of my classes are taking place online so I will barely be at uni I asked my bf that we should try again but he has texted back that he doesn't Think he can trust me no more how do I convince him?
I think your decision is fine, but his is also understandable and by asking to get back, then it seems to suit you more than him.
he’ll be thinking that you’ll do the same next year if you move away
let him go and move on. People are not to be played with
For reference, think what would happen if the situation was reversed. These are just a few of the things I can think of that doing this says about the way you see things.
1. You want to break up because you want to 'have fun' with other people
2. Uni is more important to you than the person you claimed to love
3. You don't want to put the effort in to try and maintain your relationship
Be it one, a combination, or all three of the things. Either way, it doesn't come across as a good look. Best case scenario? Go back to him after he's had some time to himself and he might reconsider. Worst case scenario? You've thrown away the relationship.
You’re not alone, these threads are 10 a penny around this time of the year with people going off to uni, or not off this year as the case is.