Why do guys never ask me to be their girlfriend?Watch
If I had to guess, you might be too intimidating for them. Not too intimidating (in terms of beauty) to approach but once they get to know you, it might be that they feel 'less' than you, for lack of a better word and that is a huge ego problem with A LOT of men.
They always approach me in real life and call me pretty, ask me out on dates then it never gets far enough to the point where they ask me to be their girlfriend. Like why bother even approaching me in the first place or taking me on a date then? Why waste my time? Some of them even say let's just be friends wtf we could have been friends from the beginning? So weird.
i don't want to be taken advantage of, that's why i keep my barriers up. if i feel comfortable with a guy, i let them down, but otherwise i will always be hostile. if a guy likes me, then he'll have to accept that it'll take time for me to get my barriers down.