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Some people in the Indian community, they ostracise me for years, act and behave like I'm nothing and do not acknowledge anything positive or wish to listen to me.

They have belittled, acted like bullies, put me down, condensed, patronised, were very critical.

They still ignore my academic achievements and think I'm nothing when I am doing well.

They say I have no money etc.

But why? Do they use me as a scaepgoat for their insecurities, they just wish to hold power so they act and it is for their ego?
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Some people in the Indian community, they ostracise me for years, act and behave like I'm nothing and do not acknowledge anything positive or wish to listen to me.

They have belittled, acted like bullies, put me down, condensed, patronised, were very critical.

They still ignore my academic achievements and think I'm nothing when I am doing well.

They say I have no money etc.

But why? Do they use me as a scaepgoat for their insecurities, they just wish to hold power so they act and it is for their ego?
Yes they do hold you scapegoat for their insecurities! You’re in a position where they’d want themselves/their kids in and they make you feel this way to make themselves feel better about all this. They are aware of your achievements, everything that you’re saying here, but it’ll hurt their ego if they admit it, so they just gossip and say untrue stuff about you.

I wouldn’t let what they say get to you, it can be very hurtful and you know the achievements you have got till now and how hard you’ve worked. These people will never stop talking about you, for example they’ll call someone skinny and taunt them and then a few months later that same person would have gained weight, they’ll talk about how fat the person is
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