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Reply 40

jellybellyb

Original post by wannabedoctor02

hm I'm now curious about your preferences...

throw me a celebrity crush please

I definitely would .. if I had one that is.

Reply 41

Joleee

i’m demisexual so looks don’t do it for me at all. rather have a really interesting conversation.

altho i can appreciate someone with good style as style reflects personality, self esteem, values and stuff but it’s like an intellectual attraction and not physical.

Reply 42

Mr T 999

Original post by JAckieee.chan

Benedict Cumberbatch might not be a good looking fellow, but he is also not an ugly guy. I would say he is average and got everything a women wants in a 'man'.

He's got a sexy soothing voice, like a British version of Morgan freeman.

Reply 43

Mr T 999

Both. I want girl that ages like cheese. The more she matures the sexier she becomes.

Reply 44

username5308830

Original post by Golderz Is Great

this is so true its sad more people our age dont think it through :frown:

dont you agree ella?

can I say is bullying a big thing at your school(i mean is it taken seriously)

Yeah

Bullying doesn’t actually happen that often at my school, but when it does I assume they take it very seriously.

Reply 45

Geraldthegoat

For me, I have to have an initial attraction to them but the more time u spend with them and the more they open up showing their personal qualities, the more I like them and feel closer to them. So in the short term physical appearance but personality is the most important long term.

(edited 3 years ago)

Reply 46

username5243162

Both. Looks invite me in. Personality makes me stay/leave.

Reply 47

username5398218

Original post by Nutella!

Yeah

Bullying doesn’t actually happen that often at my school, but when it does I assume they take it very seriously.

Ok its something i really hate though ella however dont you go to a posh school anyway so i dont think it happens so much at them sort of places

Reply 48

step_aside

Doesn't matter, I have extremely great looks and strong genes so my children will not be cursed with a face like my partner had my partner been unattractive. I wish there was a way for humans to reproduce asexually i would have a strong daughter who looks just like me and who will carry my last name, her head would be shaven bald and she would try her best to become just like me.

Reply 49

Christabellll

Original post by wannabedoctor02

Personality. If I like someone's personality, I eventually feel attracted to their looks

Omg this. It's so weird this is so true. Even though I say I have a 'type' I think in the end I still end up crushing on someone who doesn't necessarily fit that type physically, because their personality overrides their looks in a way

Reply 50

username5376192

Original post by step_aside

Uhhh ok

Reply 51

username5308830

Original post by Golderz Is Great

Ok its something i really hate though ella however dont you go to a posh school anyway so i dont think it happens so much at them sort of places

No 😂 I go to my local school, wouldn’t say it’s posh, but it’s not dreadful either

Reply 52

username1339858_

Both

Need to be attracted to their looks and personality.

I am not too fussed with regards to looks though, as long as I do not perceive it as ugly, I am fine with it. Looks tend to grow on me tbh.

Personality, is a big one for me. But as long as we do not clash personality wise, and can get on well that's good.

Mentality though, that's one that I put above looks and personality. I cannot mesh with someone who has such a different mentality to me

Reply 53

username5326522

Personality is very important but I’d like to be physically attracted to them too

Reply 54

Alishaxo2112

Original post by Moonlight rain

Personality is very important but I’d like to be physically attracted to them too

Me toooo sissss ❤️

Reply 55

Anonymous #1

Personality. Maybe its just how I'm wired, but in my experience if I become attracted to someone's personality, over time I grow to love their looks too.

Reply 56

Zarek

I think attractiveness is pretty much 50:50 appearance and personality. Of course the former tends to have the more powerful initial impression and for a time at least to if someone is very physically attractive to bring a halo effect.