Over the last few years there have been many changes in his behaviour. Most recently, tonight, he called me a ‘stupid woman’, about a month ago he threw carrots at me which he was holding because he got annoyed and whenever I bring anything up which he disagrees with he walks out of the room or brings something up which annoys him which I do.
At this moment in time writing this I feel in two minds, part of me is depressed... who wants to be with a stupid woman who always acts the victim- his words. The other part wants this relationship so bad. We have been together for so long and I can’t imagine being without him.
Another point, if I’m doing something which annoys him he will hurt me and then pretend that he didn’t realise it would hurt me. E.g. kick me away.
I can’t help looking into emotional abuse however I feel that we are also meant to be.
Do you think I am overreacting or have I got a right to be concerned about this behaviour?
I’ve never felt like he will kill me or even harm me severely, it’s more the emotional side of the relationship which I am struggling to handle.
i hope this helps
In the very least he clearly doesnt respect you, why would you want to be in a relationship with someone like that? He also shouldnt be making you miserable, thats not a healthy relationship. You deserve much more than that.