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SandraSw1
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It's not easy to bring your relationship back to balance after you’ve cheated. How can I get our relationship back?
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the trust is gone. move on and find someone who deserves you, respects you and you can trust 100%. good luck
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the trust is gone. move on and find someone who deserves you, respects you and you can trust 100%. good luck
Seems like OP is the one who cheated, either way, cheating is the end of a relationship in most cases.
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firstly, who cheated on who?
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I was trying escort job for a bit to make some extra money :ashamed2:
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Unless the guy is happy with polyamory I have to say that the trust will be gone and it's best to move on.

More-so if the cheater did it knowingly.* I.e. they knew they were cheating and that their partner didn't want it/etc, and that there was no liquor or other circumstances involved.
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(Original post by SandraSw1)
I was trying escort job for a bit to make some extra money :ashamed2:
did you see if that was okay with him? if he was okay with it then i don't think it's cheating.
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did you see if that was okay with him? if he was okay with it then i don't think it's cheating.
He was furious. Sorry, I know what you thinking about me now
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He was furious. Sorry, I know what you thinking about me now
no, it's okay. we live and we learn. are you guys still together at this present moment?
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no, it's okay. we live and we learn. are you guys still together at this present moment?
unfortunately not
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That's not cheating.
It sounds like your ex has dumped you because he doesn't want to date a sex worker.
Best to just end all contact and move on.
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That's not cheating.
It sounds like your ex has dumped you because he doesn't want to date a sex worker.
Best to just end all contact and move on.
I’m not a sex worker !!!
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I’m not a sex worker !!!
Any form of escorting that involves trading sexual services for cash is sex work.
As is selling sex 'to make some extra money' as: a sugarbaby, erotic dancer, masseur, porn star and anything else in the adult entertainment industry.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
Any form of escorting that involves trading sexual services for cash is sex work.
As as selling sex 'to make some extra money' as: a sugarbaby, erotic dancer, masseur, porn star and anything else in the adult entertainment industry.
maybe its not best to refer to OP using that terminology bcuz u dont have any context
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If your going to be a sex worker you should probably have talked to your boyfriend about it.
Move on and find someone else.
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If your going to be a sex worker you should probably have talked to your boyfriend about it.
Move on and find someone else.
dont refer to her using that kind of terminology. thought u were better than that
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dont refer to her using that kind of terminology. thought u were better than that
Read londonmyst's post.
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Read londonmyst's post.
so just bcuz someone else uses vulgar language it makes it better for u to do the same? disgusting
take her feelings in to consideration and stop it
u have come on this page to help OP not to judge her remember that
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(Original post by owlknightdragon)
dont refer to her using that kind of terminology. thought u were better than that
(Original post by owlknightdragon)
maybe its not best to refer to OP using that terminology bcuz u dont have any context
They said they did escort work and they also say cheated which implies they did actually do the sex part of it. In what way is OP not a sex worker?
Nobody is necessarily saying sex work is horrible, if that’s what someone wants to do then have at it, but don’t have a go at us for saying that’s what OP did.

OP he won’t come back to you because that’s the kind of thing he might not be, and clearly isn’t, comfortable with. You need to be more forthcoming in future and be open (in both senses it seems) with your partner.
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Cheaters dont have my sympathy. i hope your bf finds a better and nicer woman than your trashy cheating self. i hope you feel bad
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