Friends asking to go out for drinks

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Not sure if this is a good idea. A friend has suggested we go out for drinks. There will be 4 of us in total. Just not sure what to do cos covid
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Not sure if this is a good idea. A friend has suggested we go out for drinks. There will be 4 of us in total. Just not sure what to do cos covid
I wouldnt go, you also seem hesitant. Tell them your uncomfortable going out right now with Covid, they should respect that.
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I wouldnt go, you also seem hesitant. Tell them your uncomfortable going out right now with Covid, they should respect that.
I mean I want to go, but it doesn't seem like the wisest decision. 2 of my friends have agreed to go (1 of them is the one that set it up, obviously) but the 3rd person hasn't replied yet so I'm guessing they're thinking the same thing as me
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I mean I want to go, but it doesn't seem like the wisest decision. 2 of my friends have agreed to go (1 of them is the one that set it up, obviously) but the 3rd person hasn't replied yet so I'm guessing they're thinking the same thing as me
Go with your gut. Can you talk to the friend who hasnt agreed privately and speak about how you feel?
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(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
Go with your gut. Can you talk to the friend who hasnt agreed privately and speak about how you feel?
Idk I feel like she'd say something about me messaging her privately to the others and I don't wanna risk that, so I'll probably just wait til she replies in the group chat
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Idk I feel like she'd say something about me messaging her privately to the others and I don't wanna risk that, so I'll probably just wait til she replies in the group chat
Dont give in to peer pressure from them. If you dont want to go, dont go.
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Dont give in to peer pressure from them. If you dont want to go, dont go.
Okay thanks I'll have a think about it
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It’s up to you. Don’t feel pressurised into something that makes you feel uncomfortable. I am really wanting to see my favourite work college but we want to wait until it’s safe to do so.
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It’s up to you. Don’t feel pressurised into something that makes you feel uncomfortable. I am really wanting to see my favourite work college but we want to wait until it’s safe to do so.
Yes I agree with not doing something you're uncomfortable with, but I wouldnt say that's how I feel. It's more a case of doing what is right as opposed to doing what I want. I have met up with a couple friends recently but that was the first time in months of meeting people outside my household.

I hope you get to see your colleague soon! Are you keeping in touch with them?
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Yes I message her every day at work. I love working from home because I have a long commute but I miss her. We just help each other with our daily work and have the odd little chat, and we tell each other we will catch up and make plans, but a second lockdown may be coming soon.
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