Don’t like eating with family

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I want to eat on my own in my room or in a separate room just on my own because they are just loud and arguing or talking about ****
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I want to eat on my own in my room or in a separate room just on my own because they are just loud and arguing or talking about ****
But they don’t let me
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maybe you could just try and eat a bit quicker and then leave
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(Original post by khadijaaaxxxx)
maybe you could just try and eat a bit quicker and then leave
That’s what I do but I can’t go that quick
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That’s what I do but I can’t go that quick
could you try and just zone out?
like ignore them and just eat
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(Original post by khadijaaaxxxx)
could you try and just zone out?
like ignore them and just eat
Yes that’s also what I do but it’s just annoying
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How old are you?
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How old are you?
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Are you at work or college or uni?
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Are you at work or college or uni?
Still at college , embarrassing I now
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cook your meal at different time, eat before or after?
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Still at college , embarrassing I now
No not at all.I wonder if you could engineer it so that you come in later than your family meal times by working in college library or joining some societies which meet even virtually at your family meal times.
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(Original post by lkjhgfds789)
cook your meal at different time, eat before or after?
They won’t let me
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No not at all.I wonder if you could engineer it so that you come in later than your family meal times by working in college library or joining some societies which meet even virtually at your family meal times.
I just want to get home really after college
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They won’t let me
what do you mean- are they being physically/ emotionally abusive?
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what do you mean- are they being physically/ emotionally abusive?
No they just have rules
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No they just have rules
are you willing to break their rules (meaning accepting any consequences they could try to impose)?
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I just want to get home really after college
Are you just meant to eat in a certain place like the kitchen or is it all the family have to eat together at same time thing.Could you negotiate to eat later saying you want to work first,
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Are you just meant to eat in a certain place like the kitchen or is it all the family have to eat together at same time thing.Could you negotiate to eat later saying you want to work first,
They’ll say tea is ready and won’t let me work
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They’ll say tea is ready and won’t let me work.
Well I get that they want it all done together and then cleared up but unless you are willing to talk to them or do something to change things up as already suggested there is not much to say.
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