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so i just recently found out that in my flat accommodation there’s literally no one else living in my flat either than me. i’ve chatted with some people in the halls to get to know and chat to but pretty much it.

i’m not a very sociable person, i cant anxious when i talk to people but once i get to know the person more i calm down and able to act normally.

i honestly idk what to do it’s nice to have the kitchen and stuff for yourself but it also feels weird not being able to talk to anyone.

i don’t know whether i should ask if i could move or should i just stay at my room
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(Original post by mistxxke)
so i just recently found out that in my flat accommodation there’s literally no one else living in my flat either than me. i’ve chatted with some people in the halls to get to know and chat to but pretty much it.

i’m not a very sociable person, i cant anxious when i talk to people but once i get to know the person more i calm down and able to act normally.

i honestly idk what to do it’s nice to have the kitchen and stuff for yourself but it also feels weird not being able to talk to anyone.

i don’t know whether i should ask if i could move or should i just stay at my room
Hey mistxxke!

Is no one else going to move into your flat at a later date perhaps?

If not then I would suggest asking at the halls reception if you can switch rooms because you feel isolated in your flat
I'm sure they'll be able to find you somewhere slightly better
I wouldn't stay in the flat alone - it would be nicer to live with others!

I hope this helps!
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(Original post by mistxxke)
so i just recently found out that in my flat accommodation there’s literally no one else living in my flat either than me. i’ve chatted with some people in the halls to get to know and chat to but pretty much it.

i’m not a very sociable person, i cant anxious when i talk to people but once i get to know the person more i calm down and able to act normally.

i honestly idk what to do it’s nice to have the kitchen and stuff for yourself but it also feels weird not being able to talk to anyone.

i don’t know whether i should ask if i could move or should i just stay at my room
nah honestly i wouldnt wanna be in your situation but its kind of a blessing in disguise. if you make friends with people in neighbouring halls you can inv them over for drinks and have sick sesh's without worrying about people in your flat.

if i was you i'd get to know more people in other halls and then inv them round for drinks.
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