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AlexRiley234
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Crush and me have been friends for like 5 yrrs now and recently people have started suspecting I have a crush on her. I did not say anything to anyone, so no idea about how word of mouth started. I havent spoken to my crush about this, or ever asked her out or said I liked her. Currently we are ignoring the stuff going around and are both treating each other like normal. My crush has a bf already , as well.

What do I do
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BlackkQueen12
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nothing
just go for it
youll regret it later
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If your crush is already in a relationship then you don't stand to benefit by telling her you have a crush on her.
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(Original post by BlackkQueen12)
nothing
just go for it
youll regret it later
OP's friend has a boyfriend, do you really think that's properly respecting their relationship?
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If your crush is already in a relationship then you don't stand to benefit by telling her you have a crush on her.
She doesn't know that I have a crush on her. Shr just heard everyone else say that I do but I don't know how that started because I never told anyone not even her. I haven't asked her out cos she's is another relstionship
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(Original post by JustOneMoreThing)
OP's friend has a boyfriend, do you really think that's properly respecting their relationship?
oops

didnt seem to register that part

WELL
if that's the case then you have to let your feelings die down

ignore everyone and try to focus on yourself

shoot get closer to friends and maybe you'll end up liking someone else
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(Original post by JustOneMoreThing)
OP's friend has a boyfriend, do you really think that's properly respecting their relationship?
Im not gonna ask her out, while she has a bf
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(Original post by AlexRiley234)
She doesn't know that I have a crush on her. Shr just heard everyone else say that I do but I don't know how that started because I never told anyone not even her. I haven't asked her out cos she's is another relstionship
It doesn't matter what anyone else says. But I wouldn't confirm these rumours if she's already in a relationship. It'll only damage the friendship between you.
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Dont tell her if shes in a relationship
Just think if you were in a relationship w a girl would you want a guy telling her he likes her?
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Im not gonna ask her out, while she has a bf
I don't remember telling you to.
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It doesn't matter what anyone else says. But I wouldn't confirm these rumours if she's already in a relationship. It'll only damage the friendship between you.
Ok, she is already hesitant of the rumours. She doesn't believe them I have lied to her and told her it isn't true. I feel bad lying to her, but it is sort of a white lie
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Thanks for your help.

(Original post by JustOneMoreThing)
I don't remember telling you to.
I am agreeing with what you said earlier
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Ok, she is already hesitant of the rumours. I have lied to her and told her it isn't true. I feel bad lying to her, but it is sort of a white lie
It's difficult to take but it's not healthy to pursue someone in a relationship. You'll never get what you want. Think about whether or not you want to risk your friendship just to tell her you have a crush on her.
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ahhh this reminds me of childhood

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why do friends seem to do the dirtiest things yeah?
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It's difficult to take but it's not healthy to pursue someone in a relationship. You'll never get what you want. Think about whether or not you want to risk your friendship just to tell her you have a crush on her.
No, I'd rather have a friendship with her. I can ask her out when she doesn't have a bf.
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ahhh this reminds me of childhood

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why do friends seem to do the dirtiest things yeah?
What do you mean? We haven't done anything together.
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Nothing you can do except continue to be her friend if she has a boyfriend.
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No, I'd rather have a friendship with her. I can ask her out when she doesn't have a bf.
Exactly. Better as friends than having no relationship with her at all. If she becomes single then you can shoot your shot if you feel it's right.
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Should I avoid her a bit to let the talk die down, or will this just make her more suspicuous
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(Original post by tiktoksensation)
Exactly. Better as friends than having no relationship with her at all. If she becomes single then you can shoot your shot if you feel it's right.
I definitely will 😀
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