Loneliness at uni
I’m currently going into second year at Northumbria and I just feel so alone, I’m a very shy person at first which is why I found it so hard to make friends in first year but the loneliness is really eating away at me and I just want a close group of friends like is that too hard to ask! Anyone else feel the same?
Try to attend sports clubs or other societies and maybe start conversations with people. The main thing is to put effort into it, just start talking to people, and as you start to become friends, ask them to go out to eat, etc. I know this is easier said than done, but its worth being proactive.
Original post by Lotte1204
I’m currently going into second year at Northumbria and I just feel so alone, I’m a very shy person at first which is why I found it so hard to make friends in first year but the loneliness is really eating away at me and I just want a close group of friends like is that too hard to ask! Anyone else feel the same?
HI! I'm really sorry you are feeling this way. I had this problem when I started second year. I found the best was was going to a society that focuses more on talking and activities rather than going out clubbing. I know covid has changed things but a lot of societies are still holding online meetings and activities.
You can't expect to make really close friends quickly (which sucks). Many of the people you see around campus don't know each other that well and you'll find that most people feel lonely at uni.
Keep your head up! I know its not easy!
Original post by Lotte1204
I’m currently going into second year at Northumbria and I just feel so alone, I’m a very shy person at first which is why I found it so hard to make friends in first year but the loneliness is really eating away at me and I just want a close group of friends like is that too hard to ask! Anyone else feel the same?
Hi @Lotte1204
Sorry to hear you're feeling like that, please know that you're not alone and there are always people you can speak to at Northumbria if you're starting to feel down!
Have you had a look at our Students' Union website to look at societies or socialising events? I can appreciate that this year is going to make it even harder with the restrictions, but our SU team is working really hard to make sure there are still events where you can socialise. These events can also be daunting if you're shy, but try to remember that there will also be a lot of first years that are in the same position and struggling to make friends, so it's good to push yourself a little out of your comfort zone to meet new people
Hope this helps and please ask if you have any questions!
Emily, UG Rep
Original post by Lotte1204
I’m currently going into second year at Northumbria and I just feel so alone, I’m a very shy person at first which is why I found it so hard to make friends in first year but the loneliness is really eating away at me and I just want a close group of friends like is that too hard to ask! Anyone else feel the same?
Now there are 770 Covid cases at Northumbria which isn't going to make it any easier for you. I suppose everyone will be in the same boat as you, all without much social contact.
At least the infections will be over in a few weeks if everybody isolates to the max. Maybe you can then venture out and get to know new people. It's a tought time and I am sorry for you.
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