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ask her whats up?
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ask her whats up?
just what's up?
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say "What's up, anything wrong?"
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A girl was very interested and crazy for me and as soon as I show interest she is has lost interest and talking to her in person is really difficult as it seems like she doesn't even want to talk to me and she has lost interest. This has been going on for about 5 days ever since I went to her house and we just chilled. I thought it went well and it was nice.


She has just messaged me saying sorry if I was being offish today I didn't mean to be rude.

how should I respond to this message. should I say it's fine or say that yh I noticed you were being weird

what should I text back
call her out on it

life's too short for games...
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call her out on it

life's too short for games...
how what should I say
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how what should I say
Don't do that :rofl:

She's not interested in you anymore, you need to move on.
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how what should I say
just call her on her behavior.

when a girl was acting fickle with me i text her "you don't seem to answer texts much. i think i get the msg. good luck with your music and everything. cya.." and then deleted her off social media.

a week later she text me making excuses for her behavior claiming she had no credit, when i know that girl was on contract 🙄
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just call her on her behavior.

when a girl was acting fickle with me i text her "you don't seem to answer texts much. i think i get the msg. good luck with your music and everything. cya.." and then deleted her off social media.

a week later she text me making excuses for her behavior claiming she had no credit, when i know that girl was on contract 🙄
we have been good friends irl for ages though
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Don't do that :rofl:

She's not interested in you anymore, you need to move on.
that's sad
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that's sad
Yeah it is. You have two choices though:

- Go through the cringe route and going all soppy like ANM775 mentioned
- Or you can just move on
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Yeah it is. You have two choices though:

- Go through the cringe route and going all soppy like ANM775 mentioned
- Or you can just move on
so is it safe for me to respond

yh what's up anything wrong?

or just what's up anything wrong?
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so is it safe for me to respond

yh what's up anything wrong?

or just what's up anything wrong?
No it isn't. That just makes you sound desperate.

If she actually likes you, she'll message you. You need to stay put.
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No it isn't. That just makes you sound desperate.

If she actually likes you, she'll message you. You need to stay put.
she's messaged me though sorry if I was being rude etc

should I just blank it then?
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she's messaged me though sorry if I was being rude etc

should I just blank it then?
100%.
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100%.
I did ask her if she fancied doing anything at the weekend to let me know just when i was leaving we were in a group situation. She said she would let me know and text me sorry if I was being offish today I didn't mean to be rude if I was. if this changes things what should I do
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Yeah it is. You have two choices though:

- Go through the cringe route and going all soppy like ANM775 mentioned
- Or you can just move on
nothing soppy about my route.

and a week later she was getting back in contact apologising.
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Tell her to sort her bombaclaart ass out before you pattern her up
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nothing soppy about my route.

and a week later she was getting back in contact apologising.
Yeah, of course she was buddy.
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Tell her to sort her bombaclaart ass out before you pattern her up
lmfaoo agreed
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