How to show concern? Help please

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my friend has not been replyong to my messages its been around two weeks, i have her on social media only. I don't have her number.
What shall I message her saying?
'I haven't heard from you in a while, are you okay?'
Is that okay?

I'm concerned about her.
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SoulfulTwist
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Yes that's fine.
2 weeks is not a long time tbh.
Have you reason to be concerned about her?
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by SoulfulTwist)
Yes that's fine.
2 weeks is not a long time tbh.
Have you reason to be concerned about her?
Not really a reason but it's unlike her, i know i worry a lot but I'm thinking maybe she is unwell? (Virus?)
I worry alot!
Just wanted to know if she is well really

I don't want to sound annoying either
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Not really a reason but it's unlike her, i know i worry a lot but I'm thinking maybe she is unwell? (Virus?)
I worry alot!
Just wanted to know if she is well really

I don't want to sound annoying either
It's fine to message that if you want, she may be just be really busy and caught up on things but anyone appreciates someone checking in on them.
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Don’t worry! That sounds fine, it shows you care
I can sometimes be mistaken as nosy when I have good intentions, I think just being there for when they need you is the best way to help them :^_^:
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(Original post by SoulfulTwist)
It's fine to message that if you want, she may be just be really busy and caught up on things but anyone appreciates someone checking in on them.
Okay will do, thank you x
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(Original post by Moonbow)
Don’t worry! That sounds fine, it shows you care
I can sometimes be mistaken as nosy when I have good intentions, I think just being there for when they need you is the best way to help them :^_^:
Thank you
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Thank you
No problemo! :hugs:
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Oh she messaged me back saying
'Apologies it has been a very hectic few weeks, I am fine, thank you for asking. Take care'

So she's fine thank God! Do you think she is secretly annoyed with me or gald that I asked?
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