Girl didn't feel attracted to me

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A girl really liked me. She was crazy for me. We go on a date and I thought it went well but she lost interest in me. Her friend said it's because she felt no sexual chemistry. I agree I didn't flirt with her and only talked to her in a friend way. I let my guard down as I thought she would go out with me no matter what. big mistake.

Can I get her to feel attracted to me again by being more flirty with her. She thought I was really good looking and cute if that helps? She just felt no sexual chemistry. She liked me for awhile too. We are friends now and text but she doesn't put the same energy in to it. just how a normal friend would text you . no more of that trying to impress me business.
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Why did you make the same thread twice?
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Why did you make the same thread twice?
more information ???
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more information ???
Couldn't that be put on the original thread?
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dude you've made this thread at least 3 times now...
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dude you've made this thread at least 3 times now...
about 5
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Leave Olivia alone
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Leave Olivia alone
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Leave Olivia alone
how tf did you know ?
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how tf did you know ?
Really???
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Really???
yes you are correct are you surprised or am I being dumb that you know?
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yes you are correct are you surprised or am I being dumb that you know?
What?!

My “really?!” Was in astonishment that you were asking me how I know.

No I’m not surprised, my comment wasnt a guess...
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What?!

My “really?!” Was in astonishment that you were asking me how I know.

No I’m not surprised, my comment wasnt a guess...
You are Olivia's friend?
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You are Olivia's friend?
Nope
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A girl really liked me. She was crazy for me. We go on a date and I thought it went well but she lost interest in me. Her friend said it's because she felt no sexual chemistry. I agree I didn't flirt with her and only talked to her in a friend way. I let my guard down as I thought she would go out with me no matter what. big mistake.

Can I get her to feel attracted to me again by being more flirty with her. She thought I was really good looking and cute if that helps? She just felt no sexual chemistry. She liked me for awhile too. We are friends now and text but she doesn't put the same energy in to it. just how a normal friend would text you . no more of that trying to impress me business.
She's stupid. Sexual chemistry can be 0 and it wouldn't make a difference.
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What?!

My “really?!” Was in astonishment that you were asking me how I know.

No I’m not surprised, my comment wasnt a guess...
what do you think of it all then
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What?!

My “really?!” Was in astonishment that you were asking me how I know.

No I’m not surprised, my comment wasnt a guess...
any final advice on what I should do and what do you even think of me considering you know so much about it
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what do you think of it all then
I think I’ve been very honest about what I think of it all.

You’re playing crappy games and you need to leave her alone.
You sound like an immature spoilt child spitting the dummy out cos she doesn’t fancy you anymore even tho you don’t want to be with her.
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you saw the post about the
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You can't force sexual chemistry with someone. It's not down to a mistake that you made ("not being flirty enough") but rather that she just doesn't feel the right connection to you. All you can do is accept this and move on. There will be other girls out there that will feel that level of chemistry with you.
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