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Vanessa Chuah
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everytime i try to be nice to people they always act like ***** towards me. i don't know why but everyone hates me. i end up being friends with almost everyone but the friendships don't last long. i always **** things up. i never know why.
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(Original post by Vanessa Chuah)
everytime i try to be nice to people they always act like ***** towards me. i don't know why but everyone hates me. i end up being friends with almost everyone but the friendships don't last long. i always **** things up. i never know why.
Is there something in specific that you mess up?
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Is there something in specific that you mess up?
not really. but for example, i might do something(a habit) and it annoys people and they break off the friendship. especially online friendships. in real life, i rarely have a problem with this.
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(Original post by Vanessa Chuah)
not really. but for example, i might do something(a habit) and it annoys people and they break off the friendship. especially online friendships. in real life, i rarely have a problem with this.
How would a habit of yours get in the way of an online friendship? Unless it's a habit that can be noticed over text...
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(Original post by Vanessa Chuah)
not really. but for example, i might do something(a habit) and it annoys people and they break off the friendship. especially online friendships. in real life, i rarely have a problem with this.
What is the habit? I suppose the obvious answer is to stop doing it if its a negative one.
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How would a habit of yours get in the way of an online friendship? Unless it's a habit that can be noticed over text...
yeah, it is. like spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things.

(Original post by LovelyMrFox)
What is the habit? I suppose the obvious answer is to stop doing it if its a negative one.
spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things. like if someone say something i don't like i get defensive.
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yeah, it is. like spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things.


spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things. like if someone say something i don't like i get defensive.
Well, maybe you can try to control this habit.
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(Original post by Vanessa Chuah)
everytime i try to be nice to people they always act like ***** towards me. i don't know why but everyone hates me. i end up being friends with almost everyone but the friendships don't last long. i always **** things up. i never know why.
There’s nothing wrong with you. You just haven’t found someone who’s good enough for you 😊✨
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yeah, it is. like spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things.


spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things. like if someone say something i don't like i get defensive.
Start making a list of friendships that have ended and id what went wrong in each.
Keep the list and avoid replicating those errors/ habits in future.
You can also have a different or less destructive way of dealing with such situations in future.
That should remove annoying habits.
You cant have that many.
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yeah, it is. like spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things.


spamming others and getting mad over the smallest things. like if someone say something i don't like i get defensive.
Which is the real you? The Keyboard Warrior?
Or the Chilled Out Person in real life?

They may well both be the Real You.

One thing I would say is that in life about 1/3 or people won't like you. 1/3 of people will be fairly neutral towards you. 1/3 will like you. With 1/10 liking you a lot.
You will also get a certain amount of two-faced people that will be nice as pie to your face but moan about you behind your back.

You won't be liked by all the people all the time.

Although it does sound like if you were more chilled out online you'd fall out with fewer people.
So in future, try to let others be idiots online. You just do your own thing and keep calm and carry on.

And also, BTW, from what I've seen of your posts and messages on this forum, you seem like a polite, charming, interesting, level headed person.
So maybe you're being a bit harsh on yourself and on how you come across online? Or maybe TSR brings out the best in you?
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