At what age did you lose your virginity?

did u read all the parts? lol.... It all so stupid... I hate girls.... put on this earth to ruin our lives

Puppy,
I'm sorry but it seems to me that however open-minded you seem to be towards sex you're showing a bit of intolerance for other people's opinion of it. It looks as though your own modern opinion is the correct one and anyone who sees it different is prudish or outdated. Other people might see sex in a different more significant way and to them it really is so it can't be considered wrong but simply different, it also doesn't mean that they condemn casual sex.
What I mean is that you can think logically in one way but act completely different, for example I really don't care if someone sleeps with a different man everynight or have threesomes all the time (not my business at all actually) but that doesn't mean it's something I'd do myself...

I might have completely misunderstood you and I'm sorry if I did

HEEEY

I thought the story was adorable (the type you see in movies and don't think you'll see in real life) too bad about the end though, the girl did not deserve him...

Isn't it soooooooooooo much easier for male to have an orgasm than female? So unfair, not only do we have to put up with the female species, they're harder to please as well.

Thanks.... I've learn LOADS of sex moves from that relationship. It wasn't one which we were afraid to tell each other what really made us feel better. For the first few months of having sex, I never gave her one orgasm. But after I got the technique right, it all came flowing in .
She never ever faked, that's what i liked, although it did make me feel bad at times, lol.

Isn't it soooooooooooo much easier for male to have an orgasm than female? So unfair, not only do we have to put up with the female species, they're harder to please as well.

Hang on a second, I thought it was cute before but after this I have to protests:
You think it's unfair on men that women are harder to please? Well what about the poor frustrated women?!

See, your problem is you think sex is something its not, Im not going to sit here and tell you that you shouldnt wait till your married etc. becuase at the end of the day its your opinion, and your choice, Ill just say that one day youll realise that its not that big a deal.

Im not sure I ever said I wasn't going to participate in the discussion. No one was talking about the issue anyway when I wasn't saying anything, people were just listing their ages. Unless I participate I can't steer the conversation into areas I find interesting which was, afterall, the point of starting this thread.

Im pushy with my opinion because I don't personally think anyone has given me an actual reason why not to have sex. Everyone's emotional reactions to sex are inspired by some ridiculous dogma someone stuffed down their throats when they were little. As far as I can see it can't be genetically possible to develop sexual morals (except as far as incest is concerned). It frustrates me when I see people bound by ridiculous morals they've let someone else create for them.

totally. lol.

i was just turned 16.

Of course the most interesting thing is why people lost it when they did, or why they are still waiting so if you vote on the poll it'd be great to hear some kind of explanation. Also thoughts on why people view virginity as important in the first place and why they feel sex is a big deal (if in fact they do) would be really interesting to hear.

Hiya,

Yes, I think that sex is between you and your partner or the one you choose to do it with and it shouldn't be a public thing unless you want to make it. However, I lost my virginity when I was 17 years old (I'm now nearly 19) I had only been with my boyfriend 4 months but to this day I have never regretted it coz my boyfriend then is my fiance now! My ex before my fiance I had been with for nearly 2 and a half years and I always felt like why is it that ive been with him this long yet I still don't feel right to sleep with him...we broke up as that was one of the reasons - he wanted sex, I didn't and loads of other reasons but it turned out he didnt love me as much as he said he did. And with my fiance it was after 4 months I love him and it was definitely an act of love and I don't regret it for a second. My advice is - do it ONLY when it feels completely natural and right....

love ladyshort

15. Guy climbed on top of me when I was at his house (his dad offered to take me home with them because I was sick and my mom couldnt make it to school to pick me up) and I was too groggy to do anything about it. One of the biggest regrets of my life.