At what age did you lose your virginity?

What kind of shitty advice is that?
Girls who don't sleep around and who only have sex with guys they're going out with and care about are those that gain respect. It's tragic to see 15 and 16 year old girls shagging their way through their male friends, thinking they'll be better appreciated that way only to find out that noone wants them as a girlfriend. These days people understand the technicalities of sex before understanding relationships.
Guys are good at convincing girls to sleep with them, especially when they're younger and as guys, we're happy when we manage to have sex easily but do we want to go out with a girl who's an easy lay?
When you're in a serious, adult relationship, you want to know your partner's past because you love that person and want to know everything about them. This is the case for a lot of people anyway. When you find out that they've slept around, it can be a turnoff as you might realise that sex isn't important for that person.
You're still young and probably don't know the first thing about relationships so the kind of advice you're given is crap. How do you know how your current actions will affect your relationships in the future?

If you love someone, it shouldnt matter how many people theyve slept with in the past.

And I was in no way suggesting that people should just sleep around for the sake of it.

16... it was a mistake, i felt pressurised.

I was 14 and in retrospect I was too young but I was in that hideous rebellious, obnoxious teenage girl phase so drinking, having sex and smoking were the thing....though it was actually rebellious in my day and not the norm!

I don't see how people can do that.. buckle under pressure? surely deep down they wanted to do it but just put a front up that gave the impression that they we'r persuaded into having sex?

i wouldnt stand for that sort of behaviour if i had a 14yr old daughter

i wouldnt stand for that sort of behaviour if i had a 14yr old daughter

yeah i would hate a hideous 14 year daughter IF I ever had one (which I never will, cant stand kids)

i know a friend who had sex at 13 and from there expiremented constantly, i.e. having sex with more than one person etc (don't really want to put the details..) what do u think about that sort of stuff?

i know a friend who had sex at 13 and from there expiremented constantly, i.e. having sex with more than one person etc (don't really want to put the details..) what do u think about that sort of stuff?

yeah i would hate a hideous 14 year daughter IF I ever had one (which I never will, cant stand kids)

i know a friend who had sex at 13 and from there expiremented constantly, i.e. having sex with more than one person etc (don't really want to put the details..) what do u think about that sort of stuff?