Really want attention but I know I won’t commit

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Hi,

I really don’t want to be selfish or hurt myself or anyone but I really want attention from a guy. I don’t need it so that good I guess but I’ve went through so many talking stages that I now know that everyone is temporary and don’t need anyone. How do I snap out of it?
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999tigger
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi,

I really don’t want to be selfish or hurt myself or anyone but I really want attention from a guy. I don’t need it so that good I guess but I’ve went through so many talking stages that I now know that everyone is temporary and don’t need anyone. How do I snap out of it?
Relationships dont have to be forever and some guys will prefer casual.
Its not wrong just to want company.
Just make it clear or at least dont mislead about whats on offer.

How old are you?


Hard to say but if you are quite needy, then you might want to look at your self esteem.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by 999tigger)
Relationships dont have to be forever and some guys will prefer casual.
Its not wrong just to want company.
Just make it clear or at least dont mislead about whats on offer.

How old are you?


Hard to say but if you are quite needy, then you might want to look at your self esteem.
20. I don’t think I’m needy, I mean I used to be years again but realised guys can’t provide everything lmaoo so I don’t get as attached anymore. What does it to do with my self esteem?
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20. I don’t think I’m needy, I mean I used to be years again but realised guys can’t provide everything lmaoo so I don’t get as attached anymore. What does it to do with my self esteem?
You sound like you're forcing yourself to feel a certain way. Did you get hurt recently?
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999tigger
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20. I don’t think I’m needy, I mean I used to be years again but realised guys can’t provide everything lmaoo so I don’t get as attached anymore. What does it to do with my self esteem?
Sorry misinterpreted because of your English. You should decide whether you do or do not want attention, looks like you are saying you want it, when you mean you do not.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Xarao)
You sound like you're forcing yourself to feel a certain way. Did you get hurt recently?
Not hurt but a realisation hit me.
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