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I need to get married now?!

Im sick and tired of this addiction i have been trying to quit for the past 3 years but i cant. I’m talking about pornography addiction. I literally feel the urges weekly and i try to fight but always fail, i hate this and before you tell me its normal, it really is not, there are many studys showing how porn and masturbation addiction affects your brain in extremely negative ways.

Now i have come to the conclusion that the only solution to quitting this once and for all is getting married, so that i dont feel the need to “pleasure my self” at this point it isn’t even pleasure - its depression and torture. But how do i get married at 19, is this too young?
Original post by Anonymous
Im sick and tired of this addiction i have been trying to quit for the past 3 years but i cant. I’m talking about pornography addiction. I literally feel the urges weekly and i try to fight but always fail, i hate this and before you tell me its normal, it really is not, there are many studys showing how porn and masturbation addiction affects your brain in extremely negative ways.

Now i have come to the conclusion that the only solution to quitting this once and for all is getting married, so that i dont feel the need to “pleasure my self” at this point it isn’t even pleasure - its depression and torture. But how do i get married at 19, is this too young?

In what way will getting married solve your issue?

It's quite normal to have a high sex drive as a young person, and as a response needing to watch porn and "do your business", to get some relief. When it becomes harmful, imo, is when you start watching stuff that's a bit too hardcore and you're only able to get off by that
Marriage is not the solution, willpower is.
Plenty of marriages break up over one spouse preferring porn to a real sex life or spending time with their spouse.
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Original post by IVLIVSCAESAR
In what way will getting married solve your issue?

It's quite normal to have a high sex drive as a young person, and as a response needing to watch porn and "do your business", to get some relief. When it becomes harmful, imo, is when you start watching stuff that's a bit too hardcore and you're only able to get off by that

Masturbation and porn is not natural. You are essentially deceiving your brain into getting a dopamine rush through artificial means.
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Original post by londonmyst
Marriage is not the solution, willpower is.
Plenty of marriages break up over one spouse preferring porn to a real sex life or spending time with their spouse.

Very good point, no point in marriage if my willpower is bad.
Original post by Anonymous
Masturbation and porn is not natural. You are essentially deceiving your brain into getting a dopamine rush through artificial means.

I mean, modern life allows easy dopamine hits constantly, so it is important to control that in some regards. But as I said, it is more unusual than vice versa to have a low sex drive at 19
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Original post by londonmyst
Marriage is not the solution, willpower is.
Plenty of marriages break up over one spouse preferring porn to a real sex life or spending time with their spouse.

I see things differently... plenty of marriages break up over one spouse preferring a real sex life to porn.....

Maybe in bf/gf rels the porn viewing thing breaks ppl up more but in marriages my parents' age for sure it's real life sexlife that blows things up, the more mature spouses learn to tolerate/accept porn viewing as the exchange price for not indulging in reality.
Who told you it wasn’t natural?

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