How do I stop comparing my relationship to others?

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How do I stop comparing my relationship to others? I seem to find myself constantly doing this and then degrading my own relationship
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Vanessa Peace
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When you are in the process of comparing your relationship, it is much better you compare the great aspects of your relationship that they don't have.
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(Original post by Vanessa Peace)
When you are in the process of comparing your relationship, it is much better you compare the great aspects of your relationship that they don't have.
That’s still comparing buddy. @OP, there really isn’t, are you feeling insecure about your relationship?
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Then it just shows you are not happy in your heart about the relationship you are in your head is telling you so by degrading your relationship. You clearly do not seem interested and you shouldn't waste your time or your significant others and move on.
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Your brain is telling you, you cannot have good things and stuff!

If you love this person then try comparing the positive aspects, it will change your mindset completely!

This happens more than you think x
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Every relationship is different, the ones that look perfect may actually be the worst ones - you never know!

It’s better to focus on your relationship. Are you happy with your partner? Is there things you would like to change or try?

Communicate these feelings with your partner and build the best relationship possible. Once you feel content with the relationship you’re in, there will be no need to compare as you know it’s the happiest relationship it can be.

It’s all about communication and finding balance. Talk it through with your partner!
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