I'm 17, she's 15, should I go for it?

A girl in the lower school has started talking to me and I'm pretty sure she is interested. I like her but I'm not sure if at our age, the two year difference is toooo much. I mean, should I just wait until she turns 16? What do you think? Anyone been in a similar situation? Thanks.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Sounds like a major age difference but when u think about it 2 years is nothing! I mean you can always try a date or two and find out if you guys should go out cos could turn out she is completely immature and you guys have 0 similar interest

Reply 2

abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz

17

f there's fluff on the muff, she's old enough Does she have fluff? yes? go for it

Reply 3

Smoosh

13

I say go for it. It's not that much of a difference, my boyfriend was 17 when I was 15.

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

Well i am 15 and sort of like strongly a 19 year old... and it goes beyond that too so i think this is beyond plausible

Reply 5

WOLLSMOTH

This thread should be reported to mods and handled delicately. You would be breaking the law.

Reply 6

Valbonne92

16

Yess obviously just go for it. I remember when I was in year 10 and there were loadsa hotties at sixth form, I knew loadsa girls seeing them.

Reply 7

Carl Sagan

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WOLLSMOTH

This thread should be reported to mods and handled delicately. You would be breaking the law.

Where does it say anything about sex?

Reply 8

Ronaldo VII

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WOLLSMOTH

This thread should be reported to mods and handled delicately. You would be breaking the law.

For asking her out? No.

Reply 9

BillV3

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WOLLSMOTH

This thread should be reported to mods and handled delicately. You would be breaking the law.

oh god you're back again :frown:

, he never mentioned intercourse or any other sexual acts, so technically he wouldn't be breaking the law.

Reply 10

Anonymous #4

nah its nothing..I was seeing someone when I was in year 9 someone that was in year 11 :eek:

but I was fine..emotionally wise and everything if she is mature enough go for it :smile:

anyways shell be 16 soon..no?

Reply 11

Solid_Snake_100

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Anonymous

A girl in the lower school has started talking to me and I'm pretty sure she is interested. I like her but I'm not sure if at our age, the two year difference is toooo much. I mean, should I just wait until she turns 16? What do you think? Anyone been in a similar situation? Thanks.

just to ask, are you old in your year, and she young in hers? Normally at my school we have a "2 year" rule....seems like you fit into that.

Reply 12

benmh92

12

I know many people who do this. A 2 year difference is nothing, but anything more and i think its too much. And for all we know she might be nearly 16 and the OP only just turned 17, which is only like a 1 year difference.

Reply 13

Dr Zeuss™

11

I know a few people who are 17 and have went out with 15 year olds with no problems.

Reply 14

jaz_jaz

Yes
But beware, that 15 year old girls can be extremely immature. Esp if there chavvy/hang around with chavs.

Reply 15

chrisjar

I wouldn't worry about that, thats nothing compared to some people I know!
And I also dated a 15yr old when I was 17, and although it was only just over a year difference in reality, some people still had a problem with it. But honestly she was the most mature person I've been with, more mature than the girls my age I've dated!

And as a side point, I remember looking at a study by Buss on relationships in A level psychology, which found that throughout the world, the average age of a woman was 2 and a half years younger than the man she was with! :p: