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How to hook up with someone in a relationship.

Serious question. How can I do it?

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Original post by Anonymous
Serious question. How can I do it?

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Original post by DrawTheLine
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I am talking hypothetically taking morals aside...
don't
Original post by Anonymous
don't

basically
Original post by Anonymous
I am talking hypothetically taking morals aside...

Yeah, no.
Original post by Anonymous
Serious question. How can I do it?

Omggg i got the best advice. what you do is not do it. Bang thats your method
Original post by Anonymous
Serious question. How can I do it?

No offence mate but I don't think you're going to get the warmest audience asking that kind of question.
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Original post by bigbarnesy
No offence mate but I don't think you're going to get the warmest audience asking that kind of question.

I knew it, but I did it anyway.
how about how to hook with someone who is single thats what i need advice on
Original post by SlytherinSoul
how about how to hook with someone who is single thats what i need advice on

Be likeable, approachable, make sure that they are open to a relationship atm and ask them out. If they say yes, there you go. If not, don't beat yourself up about it.
Swingers clubs, fetish sites for those into polyamory or couple/cuck related kinks.
Original post by Anonymous
Serious question. How can I do it?


Stand outside sainsbury's with a sign that says, 'I want to hookup with someone in a relationship!'
Original post by Anonymous
Serious question. How can I do it?

Simple answer: Don't do it. You're seriously going to separate two people in a happy relationship because you're selfish? That's a horrible thing to do. How would you like it if some random person came in between you and someone you loved and stole your significant other?
Original post by curiousperson123
Stand outside sainsbury's with a sign that says, 'I want to hookup with someone in a relationship!'


Make sure you go to a supermarket and not the express ones
Original post by Anonymous
Serious question. How can I do it?

NGL, if I catch you sniffing round my girl, I'm coming for you bruv!

If you're serious, your best bet would be to set yourself up as a male escort (OSLT), but realistically that would only work if you're good looking, "equipped" , very charming or otherwise more desirable than the average guy.

Why specifically are you interested in women who are taken?

Original post by londonmyst
Swingers clubs, fetish sites for those into polyamory or couple/cuck related kinks.

Good luck to him trying to get into one of those kind of clubs, as a single guy. :lol:
Reply 16
If it was my partner you went after, you would live to regret it. No joke.
Original post by sykobear
Simple answer: Don't do it. You're seriously going to separate two people in a happy relationship because you're selfish? That's a horrible thing to do. How would you like it if some random person came in between you and someone you loved and stole your significant other?


Wait a mo'! What makes u believe that you would "separate" two ppl in a rel? I'm in a serious rel and I hook up a lot. But nobody comes "between" me and my rel.

That's a classic oldstyle relationship based on mutual exclusivity. Not all rels are like that esp these days. Lots of ppl connect with others while maintaining a rel. Some like me and my master do so openly. Quite a few do it anyway, it's the human story from the beginning of time.
Original post by candydiva
Wait a mo'! What makes u believe that you would "separate" two ppl in a rel? I'm in a serious rel and I hook up a lot. But nobody comes "between" me and my rel.

That's a classic oldstyle relationship based on mutual exclusivity. Not all rels are like that esp these days. Lots of ppl connect with others while maintaining a rel. Some like me and my master do so openly. Quite a few do it anyway, it's the human story from the beginning of time.

I've seen you throw around the term 'master' a lot. What do you mean by that?
It's a BDSM term meaning dominant knowledgeable man to whom I willingly give my submission. He's the only one who performs this role for me :smile: It's also a term I use with respect coz tbh no boy in his 20s or even 30s is sufficiently worldly to make me feel this way.

It also means he is like Yoda, very worldly, knowledgeable, advanced, emotionally and intellectually, a person who has great experience and consideration as well as self-knowledge and independence.

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