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Sooooo a few weeks ago I liked this guy and he somehow found out and knew it was me and saw me and I kinda just freaked out and ran away and then I found out that he mentioned it to some girls I know so I went up to him just to talk and I told him that I thought he was cute but that that was it and that I wasn’t in love with him like some people were saying and that it just spread so much but I didn’t actually want anything wth him and I never intended for him to even find out in the first place.

Thing is, he agreed to talk to me that day and we spoke for a good five minutes at the end of break (also I go to a girls’ school btw but at sixth form guys from the boys’ school are allowed to come for certain subjects so he does sociology here) but then afterwards he was like it was fine talking to her but it was weird that a massive group of girls were just watching (and then he went on to ask if I was really popular and stuff because apparently he doesn’t like girls like that for some reason) so yeah it was ok I thought the whole sich was over and done with but then I started airing him (like I wldnt look at him hen he came to my schl n I didn’t try tlkng to him again) but for some reason he started chatting abt me soooo much n making me look bad to his friends n mine n I found out n got rlly upset n hurt bcuz I didn’t get what I’d done to him then his friends found out n felt bad so they came up to me apologised n then we were tlkng n then I was like why didn’t he come say It himself? N they were like idk go up to him if u want so I did but he tried to run from me so I ended up swearing at him in front of everyone (I didn’t mean to lol I just got mad n upset) but then we were tlkng n he denied ever saying anything bad abt me but his friends then yelled at him n made him apologise to me but it was the fakest thing ever so I just walked away rlly angry

So then he was asking after me like asking if I was saying anything abt him n if I was crying n stuff n my friends were all like nahh she’s fine she was just rlly mad at u but shes not tlkng abt u anymore so leave it n leave her n he was just like idc if she’s mad at me cuz I nvr wanted to get involved in the first place her friends all caused this whole drama im literally just here to study but yh BUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT I LIKED HIM HE WAS FULLY ASKING ABT ME N THEN HE CLAIMS HE’S JUST HERE FOR STUDY N NOT TO TLK TO GIRLS BUT NOW HE’S TLKNG TO MY FRIENDS WHO ONLY EVER STARTED TLKNG TO HIM CUZ OF ME N HE KNOWS THAT!!!! N he made a group chat w/ his friends, two girls from his sociology class and two of my friends n they were fully like why did u add us we don’t even do sociology n he wldnt give a straight answer

N whenever he sees me irl he ignores me or walks past me but then goes n watches me from a distance w/ his friends n whenever he sees ANYONE im friends with he starts acting up in front of them n tryna tlk to them (when im not even there) but refuses to speak to me (I mean I haven’t spoken to him since I swore at him n he ‘apologised’ to me but idek what to say to him anymore cuz he’s not making any effort to speak to me n I’ll look desperate n he hasn’t done anything for me to go and confront him soooooo yh)



Advice plz haha idk what his deal is does he like me (unlikely because I heard he likes another girl and asked someone out in the first week of school but got rejected) or is he just a **** (likely but sad)
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Sooooo a few weeks ago I liked this guy and he somehow found out and knew it was me and saw me and I kinda just freaked out and ran away and then I found out that he mentioned it to some girls I know so I went up to him just to talk and I told him that I thought he was cute but that that was it and that I wasn’t in love with him like some people were saying and that it just spread so much but I didn’t actually want anything wth him and I never intended for him to even find out in the first place.

Thing is, he agreed to talk to me that day and we spoke for a good five minutes at the end of break (also I go to a girls’ school btw but at sixth form guys from the boys’ school are allowed to come for certain subjects so he does sociology here) but then afterwards he was like it was fine talking to her but it was weird that a massive group of girls were just watching (and then he went on to ask if I was really popular and stuff because apparently he doesn’t like girls like that for some reason) so yeah it was ok I thought the whole sich was over and done with but then I started airing him (like I wldnt look at him hen he came to my schl n I didn’t try tlkng to him again) but for some reason he started chatting abt me soooo much n making me look bad to his friends n mine n I found out n got rlly upset n hurt bcuz I didn’t get what I’d done to him then his friends found out n felt bad so they came up to me apologised n then we were tlkng n then I was like why didn’t he come say It himself? N they were like idk go up to him if u want so I did but he tried to run from me so I ended up swearing at him in front of everyone (I didn’t mean to lol I just got mad n upset) but then we were tlkng n he denied ever saying anything bad abt me but his friends then yelled at him n made him apologise to me but it was the fakest thing ever so I just walked away rlly angry

So then he was asking after me like asking if I was saying anything abt him n if I was crying n stuff n my friends were all like nahh she’s fine she was just rlly mad at u but shes not tlkng abt u anymore so leave it n leave her n he was just like idc if she’s mad at me cuz I nvr wanted to get involved in the first place her friends all caused this whole drama im literally just here to study but yh BUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT I LIKED HIM HE WAS FULLY ASKING ABT ME N THEN HE CLAIMS HE’S JUST HERE FOR STUDY N NOT TO TLK TO GIRLS BUT NOW HE’S TLKNG TO MY FRIENDS WHO ONLY EVER STARTED TLKNG TO HIM CUZ OF ME N HE KNOWS THAT!!!! N he made a group chat w/ his friends, two girls from his sociology class and two of my friends n they were fully like why did u add us we don’t even do sociology n he wldnt give a straight answer

N whenever he sees me irl he ignores me or walks past me but then goes n watches me from a distance w/ his friends n whenever he sees ANYONE im friends with he starts acting up in front of them n tryna tlk to them (when im not even there) but refuses to speak to me (I mean I haven’t spoken to him since I swore at him n he ‘apologised’ to me but idek what to say to him anymore cuz he’s not making any effort to speak to me n I’ll look desperate n he hasn’t done anything for me to go and confront him soooooo yh)



Advice plz haha idk what his deal is does he like me (unlikely because I heard he likes another girl and asked someone out in the first week of school but got rejected) or is he just a **** (likely but sad)
Hi Girl!
I understand you completely!
First of all is an awhole!
Second Sixth former boys are like that, they just want to have fun and see your reactions for it.
Third don't mind him because one day you will find some that deserves you and crushes sometimes don't work at all-trust me. because i was in that situation too.
For me was like he asked my number and then talked to me and made fun of me with his mates.
Sixth former boys are asses, just because they are the role model of the school, it doesn't mean to hurt others feelings.

So in conclusion i would say that- leave him and mind your life.

You are gorgeous and a strong girl

Arianna
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Sooooo a few weeks ago I liked this guy and he somehow found out and knew it was me and saw me and I kinda just freaked out and ran away and then I found out that he mentioned it to some girls I know so I went up to him just to talk and I told him that I thought he was cute but that that was it and that I wasn’t in love with him like some people were saying and that it just spread so much but I didn’t actually want anything wth him and I never intended for him to even find out in the first place.

Thing is, he agreed to talk to me that day and we spoke for a good five minutes at the end of break (also I go to a girls’ school btw but at sixth form guys from the boys’ school are allowed to come for certain subjects so he does sociology here) but then afterwards he was like it was fine talking to her but it was weird that a massive group of girls were just watching (and then he went on to ask if I was really popular and stuff because apparently he doesn’t like girls like that for some reason) so yeah it was ok I thought the whole sich was over and done with but then I started airing him (like I wldnt look at him hen he came to my schl n I didn’t try tlkng to him again) but for some reason he started chatting abt me soooo much n making me look bad to his friends n mine n I found out n got rlly upset n hurt bcuz I didn’t get what I’d done to him then his friends found out n felt bad so they came up to me apologised n then we were tlkng n then I was like why didn’t he come say It himself? N they were like idk go up to him if u want so I did but he tried to run from me so I ended up swearing at him in front of everyone (I didn’t mean to lol I just got mad n upset) but then we were tlkng n he denied ever saying anything bad abt me but his friends then yelled at him n made him apologise to me but it was the fakest thing ever so I just walked away rlly angry

So then he was asking after me like asking if I was saying anything abt him n if I was crying n stuff n my friends were all like nahh she’s fine she was just rlly mad at u but shes not tlkng abt u anymore so leave it n leave her n he was just like idc if she’s mad at me cuz I nvr wanted to get involved in the first place her friends all caused this whole drama im literally just here to study but yh BUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT I LIKED HIM HE WAS FULLY ASKING ABT ME N THEN HE CLAIMS HE’S JUST HERE FOR STUDY N NOT TO TLK TO GIRLS BUT NOW HE’S TLKNG TO MY FRIENDS WHO ONLY EVER STARTED TLKNG TO HIM CUZ OF ME N HE KNOWS THAT!!!! N he made a group chat w/ his friends, two girls from his sociology class and two of my friends n they were fully like why did u add us we don’t even do sociology n he wldnt give a straight answer

N whenever he sees me irl he ignores me or walks past me but then goes n watches me from a distance w/ his friends n whenever he sees ANYONE im friends with he starts acting up in front of them n tryna tlk to them (when im not even there) but refuses to speak to me (I mean I haven’t spoken to him since I swore at him n he ‘apologised’ to me but idek what to say to him anymore cuz he’s not making any effort to speak to me n I’ll look desperate n he hasn’t done anything for me to go and confront him soooooo yh)



Advice plz haha idk what his deal is does he like me (unlikely because I heard he likes another girl and asked someone out in the first week of school but got rejected) or is he just a **** (likely but sad)
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Sooooo a few weeks ago I liked this guy and he somehow found out and knew it was me and saw me and I kinda just freaked out and ran away and then I found out that he mentioned it to some girls I know so I went up to him just to talk and I told him that I thought he was cute but that that was it and that I wasn’t in love with him like some people were saying and that it just spread so much but I didn’t actually want anything wth him and I never intended for him to even find out in the first place.

Thing is, he agreed to talk to me that day and we spoke for a good five minutes at the end of break (also I go to a girls’ school btw but at sixth form guys from the boys’ school are allowed to come for certain subjects so he does sociology here) but then afterwards he was like it was fine talking to her but it was weird that a massive group of girls were just watching (and then he went on to ask if I was really popular and stuff because apparently he doesn’t like girls like that for some reason) so yeah it was ok I thought the whole sich was over and done with but then I started airing him (like I wldnt look at him hen he came to my schl n I didn’t try tlkng to him again) but for some reason he started chatting abt me soooo much n making me look bad to his friends n mine n I found out n got rlly upset n hurt bcuz I didn’t get what I’d done to him then his friends found out n felt bad so they came up to me apologised n then we were tlkng n then I was like why didn’t he come say It himself? N they were like idk go up to him if u want so I did but he tried to run from me so I ended up swearing at him in front of everyone (I didn’t mean to lol I just got mad n upset) but then we were tlkng n he denied ever saying anything bad abt me but his friends then yelled at him n made him apologise to me but it was the fakest thing ever so I just walked away rlly angry

So then he was asking after me like asking if I was saying anything abt him n if I was crying n stuff n my friends were all like nahh she’s fine she was just rlly mad at u but shes not tlkng abt u anymore so leave it n leave her n he was just like idc if she’s mad at me cuz I nvr wanted to get involved in the first place her friends all caused this whole drama im literally just here to study but yh BUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT I LIKED HIM HE WAS FULLY ASKING ABT ME N THEN HE CLAIMS HE’S JUST HERE FOR STUDY N NOT TO TLK TO GIRLS BUT NOW HE’S TLKNG TO MY FRIENDS WHO ONLY EVER STARTED TLKNG TO HIM CUZ OF ME N HE KNOWS THAT!!!! N he made a group chat w/ his friends, two girls from his sociology class and two of my friends n they were fully like why did u add us we don’t even do sociology n he wldnt give a straight answer

N whenever he sees me irl he ignores me or walks past me but then goes n watches me from a distance w/ his friends n whenever he sees ANYONE im friends with he starts acting up in front of them n tryna tlk to them (when im not even there) but refuses to speak to me (I mean I haven’t spoken to him since I swore at him n he ‘apologised’ to me but idek what to say to him anymore cuz he’s not making any effort to speak to me n I’ll look desperate n he hasn’t done anything for me to go and confront him soooooo yh)



Advice plz haha idk what his deal is does he like me (unlikely because I heard he likes another girl and asked someone out in the first week of school but got rejected) or is he just a **** (likely but sad)
He likes you, but is embarrassed you told him off for his childish behaviour. Ignore him until he figures it out himself.
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I think you should just leave him alone, like just ignore him like he's ignoring you irl. And in a few weeks it will just be normal. I think maybe he might have been interested in the fact that someone liked him? Do you know what I mean, like everyone kinda gets interested (not in the sense that they like them or maybe in your guy's case) in that person when they find out that person likes them so at first he might have thought hmm... but he's actually being such a weirdo and **** so yeah just keep on airing him and he'll stop.
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(Original post by Ariannasewmini)
Hi Girl!
I understand you completely!
First of all is an awhole!
Second Sixth former boys are like that, they just want to have fun and see your reactions for it.
Third don't mind him because one day you will find some that deserves you and crushes sometimes don't work at all-trust me. because i was in that situation too.
For me was like he asked my number and then talked to me and made fun of me with his mates.
Sixth former boys are asses, just because they are the role model of the school, it doesn't mean to hurt others feelings.

So in conclusion i would say that- leave him and mind your life.

You are gorgeous and a strong girl

Arianna
awww ty ok thanks that acc helps hahaha he was making me feel rlly insecure before like i wasnt eating or sleeping properly n i cldnt concentrate in class at all but im better now
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I think you should just leave him alone, like just ignore him like he's ignoring you irl. And in a few weeks it will just be normal. I think maybe he might have been interested in the fact that someone liked him? Do you know what I mean, like everyone kinda gets interested (not in the sense that they like them or maybe in your guy's case) in that person when they find out that person likes them so at first he might have thought hmm... but he's actually being such a weirdo and **** so yeah just keep on airing him and he'll stop.
ahhh ok yh thats tru yh i dont rlly wanna go up n tlk to him again cuz he hasnt acc DONE anything for me to n i will look desperate then uno? i think he just got kinda gassed that i like him n is now just acting up ig
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You posted this already
yh ik i just wasnt sure if it got posted the first time round ahahaha
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He likes you, but is embarrassed you told him off for his childish behaviour. Ignore him until he figures it out himself.
oooh damn ok then haha
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yh ik i just wasnt sure if it got posted the first time round ahahaha
Ohh lol well then we already know whats happening thenn good luck with ittt xx
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Ohh lol well then we already know whats happening thenn good luck with ittt xx
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