Is it weird to think about your girlfriend when getting off?

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Just curious what you guys think, is it ok or should a guy just stick to porn and **** like that
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Being a female in a relationship, it really hurts me when I know my partner watches porn. I wish he would masturbate to my photos or videos when he was in the mood instead of turning to porn stars. I personally think it’s so nice, not going outside your intimate relationship to satisfy your intimate needs
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Just curious what you guys think, is it ok or should a guy just stick to porn and **** like that
If you're in love with a girl, then it would make sense that you still want to bash the bishop thinking of her :dontknow:
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Being a female in a relationship, it really hurts me when I know my partner watches porn. I wish he would masturbate to my photos or videos when he was in the mood instead of turning to porn stars. I personally think it’s so nice, not going outside your intimate relationship to satisfy your intimate needs
Males cannot help this impulse. They need to spread their seed and they find it more exciting to jerk off to images of strangers. Even if ur rel is the best ever and u r THE ONE and irl he would never find another girl, the idea of the lovely **** in the pic has more pull on him at that mo' than u do.

We girls r not like that as much - to some degree, but not like dudes.

He does not intend for this to be disrespectful, at least not in the majority of cases. But women are much more offended. If u try to police this impulse directly or by shaming him it gets driven underground and will manifest in less tolerable ways....
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Males cannot help this impulse. They need to spread their seed and they find it more exciting to jerk off to images of strangers. Even if ur rel is the best ever and u r THE ONE and irl he would never find another girl, the idea of the lovely **** in the pic has more pull on him at that mo' than u do.

We girls r not like that as much - to some degree, but not like dudes.

He does not intend for this to be disrespectful, at least not in the majority of cases. But women are much more offended. If u try to police this impulse directly or by shaming him it gets driven underground and will manifest in less tolerable ways....
Attraction and sexual desire does not discriminate against gender, women have these impulses too Being committed just comes down to self control, I don’t think it’s acceptable just to excuse a mans urges because he’s a man, this attitude is why porn consumption in relationships is an issue
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Attraction and sexual desire does not discriminate against gender, women have these impulses too Being committed just comes down to self control, I don’t think it’s acceptable just to excuse a mans urges because he’s a man, this attitude is why porn consumption in relationships is an issue
Yes women do... I know well enuf, coz I am a very horny and kinky girl as u can see from my postings lol! What I meant was that specifically the drive to watch and jerk off to porn in a compulsive manner is driven by T-charge.

Porn consumption isn't an issue for most males... that's xactly y they consume it and masturbate in secret where they can pleasure themselves in a relaxed way without disapproval. As we can see well enuf from TSR (and Reddit lol!) it is often an issue for some of the females with whom they are in these rels. It doesn't become an "issue" for the males... until the females make it so..... the boys think, groan, oh no, not again, she's getting on her high horse again and if he's not doing it front of her in fact he's deliberately availing himself of privacy but u know she phonesnoops in the classic millenial way and discovers Monika on XHammy, then he thinks... so wtf wat is her deal?!

I'm curious what degree of self-control should we exercise on behalf of others who don't even do what they are critiquing in us...it seems a slippery slope towards total control and abject psychological loss of self.
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Yes women do... I know well enuf, coz I am a very horny and kinky girl as u can see from my postings lol! What I meant was that specifically the drive to watch and jerk off to porn in a compulsive manner is driven by T-charge.

Porn consumption isn't an issue for most males... that's xactly y they consume it and masturbate in secret where they can pleasure themselves in a relaxed way without disapproval. As we can see well enuf from TSR (and Reddit lol!) it is often an issue for some of the females with whom they are in these rels. It doesn't become an "issue" for the males... until the females make it so..... the boys think, groan, oh no, not again, she's getting on her high horse again and if he's not doing it front of her in fact he's deliberately availing himself of privacy but u know she phonesnoops in the classic millenial way and discovers Monika on XHammy, then he thinks... so wtf wat is her deal?!

I'm curious what degree of self-control should we exercise on behalf of others who don't even do what they are critiquing in us...it seems a slippery slope towards total control and abject psychological loss of self.
do you watch porn and masturbate?
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do you watch porn and masturbate?
Yes I watch porn sometimes and masturbate more often even including after class if u rd my other posts. But I don't sign up for IG and Snap girls feeds or pay for service and when the choice is presented I want it all irl not subbed by "porn xperience."

On this topic a funny thing happened recently coz I was talking with master about our next trip. He and I sometimes go on vacation with another cute bi- student girl we both luv, and we have a lovely trip with plenty of threeway fun as well as cultural and other usual stuff. Anyway he said he wanted to watch porn with us... I'm like, sure, if u like... then he writes back, wtf I am thinking, I am living a normal dude's dream I will have two hot women naked on the rental apartment couch overlooking the beach and I'm proposing to watch porn with you... no, that's a rlly dumb idea, I wanna do u both hard in the ways u both love....before u do each other... I said, good man, u remembered what u r doing! lol!

Point being, this dude is very experienced and has enjoyed hundreds of lovely girls and for a moment even he suggested we all watch porn.. which from my pov and the other girl's pov even if we liked it would obv delay us from doing it irl! He wised up rapidly yeah but that tells me porn has a different role in dude's minds than it does in ours even if we use it sometimes too.
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