Guys can’t get hard with me

It can also be the way you look. When I was 18 I was ugly that no guy would get hard of me 😂.
Then at ages 20+ I took my headscarf off and started applying makeup and guys got hard on me.

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Racresmol

Explain how that has any relationship whatsoever to the topic

Guys can have a hard time getting turned on especially if the woman is off dark skin complexion.

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username5447420

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Original post by Anonymous

Thanks for the suggestion, wouldn’t they be offended?

I'm pretty sure most men would be up for it. you are offering them a saving grace when you think about it, plus you get 15 - 20 mins of pleasure while it takes to work. xD

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username5447420

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Original post by Anonymous

Guys can have a hard time getting turned on especially if the woman is off dark skin complexion.

It sounds like your talking about yourself there xD

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Racresmol

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Original post by Anonymous

Yeah I know that - with one partner the only way he moved past it is when I stopped mentioning it. But also when a guy is really nice he won’t say outright no I’m not attracted to you. Sometimes things come up during sex that then you off too. As a girl it’s really hard to know how to take it without asking (which as you say can make things worse). But as girls we also spend hours preparing sometimes (waxing, shaving, makeup) and it’s really disappointing for it to be for nothing and find out someone else isn’t enjoying it. I have to say it feels bad. I even shed tears one time. Try to be really nice and understanding about it but truth is they also feel bad and want the whole thing to end too. So all in all always ends awkward and both people feel bad

Thanks for the suggestion, wouldn’t they be offended?

I get you, but honestly I really doubt there's anything "wrong" with you that put them off. It's easy to overthink especially when it's happened more than once, but you shouldn't feel bad for it. If you're curious maybe you could ask them afterwards (another day, when not in a sexual situation) and try to understand if there was something else going on

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Racresmol

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Original post by Anonymous

Guys can have a hard time getting turned on especially if the woman is off dark skin complexion.

Lol as if they only realised the woman was black when getting naked in a room. No logic

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Guys can have a hard time getting turned on especially if the woman is off dark skin complexion.

I get hard when I see a dark skin woman ngl, they’re my preferred type

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Anonymous #3

Original post by jacobf91

It sounds like your talking about yourself there xD

I’m actually a very light skinned person

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Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Anonymous

I’m actually a very light skinned person

Then if I had answered a non white ethnicity would that have elicited a reply suggesting they were turned off by it??

I disagree anyway, if anything girls of diverse races have to deal with the fetishising of their looks. Men who didn’t like it wouldn’t try to begin with.

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by Racresmol

I get you, but honestly I really doubt there's anything "wrong" with you that put them off. It's easy to overthink especially when it's happened more than once, but you shouldn't feel bad for it. If you're curious maybe you could ask them afterwards (another day, when not in a sexual situation) and try to understand if there was something else going on

Yeah that will be good to do.. thanks!

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Chicken.M.

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They're either drunk, have anxiety, or watch too much porn. All very common problems.

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candydiva

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Original post by Anonymous

Guys can have a hard time getting turned on especially if the woman is off dark skin complexion.

Must be just ur opinion....guys have no problem getting hard for me and I am not xactly white lol!

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Chicken.M.

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Original post by Anonymous

Yeah that will be good to do.. thanks!

Doubt they'll tell you the real reason if they don't know you very well. They might not even understand why it happened themselves.

(edited 3 years ago)

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by ChickenMadness

They're either drunk, have anxiety, or watch too much porn. All very common problems.

Is real life sex/women that disappointing for guys compared to porn?

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Chicken.M.

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Original post by Anonymous

Is real life sex/women that disappointing for guys compared to porn?

Well it can turn into an addiction. When you're addicted to something nothing else is enjoyable. It alters your brain chemistry and takes a long time to be reversed.

That's why 'nofap' is so popular now.

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Ivartheboneless

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Original post by candydiva

Must be just ur opinion....guys have no problem getting hard for me and I am not xactly white lol!

I am also white and I have slept with dark skin women..I don't see how skin is a problem. I notice dark skin have darker nipples. White girls can also depending on tan etc, but if they are very white it is pink. Literally the only difference. It's not like a guy cares unless he has a preference, you'd have to be stupid to not know that melanin ratio would be different. The person who posted about race is a troll trying to hurt your feelings.

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by ChickenMadness

Well it can turn into an addiction. When you're addicted to something nothing else is enjoyable. It alters your brain chemistry and takes a long time to be reversed.

That's why 'nofap' is so popular now.

Okay.

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