What should I do?Watch
I met this guy on a dating website and we hit it off and added each other on facebook and deleted our dating accounts but he eventually said he wasn't ready for the sort of relationship I wanted and doesn't have the time for one after giving it some thought, but he does want a relationship with me. I said ok I understand, but i felt i could of been the one closing it all down so i later re asked him what he meant and he said the same thing (but what confused me the most was that he wouldnt give me a yes or no) I said after so shall we not continue anything or go slow, to which he left me on read for 2 days. but the problem is is that my facebook for some reason was deactivated by facebook so I can never know his answer, we have each others phone numbers so if he was concerned he can call me (i am worried he might think i was being temperamental/didnt want him anymore and deleted it) but my problem is now is that should i stop chasing him and let him go or add him on another facebook account? whilst I was talking to him we only spoke at set times of the evening and only video chatted outside his house so I'm a little fishy about him but I really like him a lot. What is your opinion? Should I let him go?
I hope my ramblings make sense
I still can't make up my mind, I want to let him go but my feelings keep pulling me back.
It's been about a week since we last spoke. If I sent a text I'd seem needy right? If I made another facebook would that be better?
Please could I have some more advice.
I can't understand why you asked him the big questions over Facebook anyway. Discussing where a relationship is going is something that deserves proper attention and conversation, not some vague back and forth messages.
Maybe there's things with him working, or family or housemates that dictate where and when he calls? If you hit it off so well, what do you know about his background?