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I’m a 17 year old male and feel really negative about myself. I have recently had two girls interested in a relationship but didn’t do anything because I’m embarrassed. I am avoiding any sexual relations because I’m ashamed by my penis and therefore still a virgin. The size is the main issue. When erect it’s only around 5 inches which I think is really small. All my mates and people I know say they are more 7-8 inches (but they could be lying). From playing sports I have seen other boys penises in the changing room and they all look much bigger than mine. Is my size good enough for a girl or will she be disappointed and then people make fun of me at college about it? Another issue is that I cannot pull my foreskin back very far. This doesn’t seem to be a problem with anyone else but I feel to embarrassed to ask mates about it. I’ve only heard them say about it when talking about masturbation or sex. They all seem to **** more than me so I’m not sure if pulling back the foreskin gives a better orgasm and I’m not doing it right and I don’t want to miss out.
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they are probably lying. you are ok don’t worry! the ones that say they have the biggest always have the smallest
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Things boys and men lie about:
- the size of their penis (add a few inches)
- how long they 'last' in bed (add a few minutes)
- how many women (take the real number if not zero, double it at least)
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they are probably lying. you are ok don’t worry! the ones that say they have the biggest always have the smallest
Ok but when I’ve seen other they all look bigger than mine and size isn’t the only issue
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Things boys and men lie about:
- the size of their penis (add a few inches)
- how long they 'last' in bed (add a few minutes)
- how many women (take the real number if not zero, double it at least)
I know that some will be lying but mine is small compared to others I’ve seen in the dressing room.
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I know that some will be lying but mine is small compared to others I’ve seen in the dressing room.
You will have seen ones that are 'asleep'. There are those that can be growers, and those that are showers.
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You will have seen ones that are 'asleep'. There are those that can be growers, and those that are showers.
Yes but they were still bigger than me
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Hey man. These concerns are very common, especially in teenagers like yourself. I had them too.

Firstly, most of those guys are almost certainly lying. 7-8 inches is well above average - we're talking pornstar size!

Secondly, though statistically correlated, erect penis size and flaccid penis size are not in every case so dependent on each-other. From the sheer amount of porn I've watched, I can tell you that ***** can look fairly normal sized flaccid then grow to be 8 inches when erect and in some cases not really grow that much at all. There's so much variation.

Thirdly, not going to lie. Having a pornstar **** is a plus! But in the vast majority of cases, a guy with an average **** and with skill in and willingness to pleasure a woman with fingers/mouth goes way further than a guy with a pornstar **** alone but with no desire/skill for foreplay!

I consider myself fairly experienced and I've had plenty of girls request a round 2/3/4 etc, say I was the best sex of their life etc... all because I love the foreplay aspect just as much as the full penetrative sex and I know what I'm doing - which comes with experience. And I gotta tell you, it sounds like my size is pretty similar to yours. And keep yourself fit - stamina is also a big plus and totally within your control! You don't need no pornstar **** to do well with the opposite sex!

That being said, there are a few girls out there that have a strong preference for big *****. My advice with those kind of women is don't take it personally!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m a 17 year old male and feel really negative about myself. I have recently had two girls interested in a relationship but didn’t do anything because I’m embarrassed. I am avoiding any sexual relations because I’m ashamed by my penis and therefore still a virgin. The size is the main issue. When erect it’s only around 5 inches which I think is really small. All my mates and people I know say they are more 7-8 inches (but they could be lying). From playing sports I have seen other boys penises in the changing room and they all look much bigger than mine. Is my size good enough for a girl or will she be disappointed and then people make fun of me at college about it? Another issue is that I cannot pull my foreskin back very far. This doesn’t seem to be a problem with anyone else but I feel to embarrassed to ask mates about it. I’ve only heard them say about it when talking about masturbation or sex. They all seem to **** more than me so I’m not sure if pulling back the foreskin gives a better orgasm and I’m not doing it right and I don’t want to miss out.
This reminded me of the locker room scene in euphoria lol
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Hey man. These concerns are very common, especially in teenagers like yourself. I had them too.

Firstly, most of those guys are almost certainly lying. 7-8 inches is well above average - we're talking pornstar size!

Secondly, though statistically correlated, erect penis size and flaccid penis size are not in every case so dependent on each-other. From the sheer amount of porn I've watched, I can tell you that ***** can look fairly normal sized flaccid then grow to be 8 inches when erect and in some cases not really grow that much at all. There's so much variation.

Thirdly, not going to lie. Having a pornstar **** is a plus! But in the vast majority of cases, a guy with an average **** and with skill in and willingness to pleasure a woman with fingers/mouth goes way further than a guy with a pornstar **** alone but with no desire/skill for foreplay!

I consider myself fairly experienced and I've had plenty of girls request a round 2/3/4 etc, say I was the best sex of their life etc... all because I love the foreplay aspect just as much as the full penetrative sex and I know what I'm doing - which comes with experience. And I gotta tell you, it sounds like my size is pretty similar to yours. And keep yourself fit - stamina is also a big plus and totally within your control! You don't need no pornstar **** to do well with the opposite sex!

That being said, there are a few girls out there that have a strong preference for big *****. My advice with those kind of women is don't take it personally!
Made me feel a bit better but what about the other problem is that a problem?
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Made me feel a bit better but what about the other problem is that a problem?
What other problem?
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What other problem?
Foreskin thing mentioned at end of original comment
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I am by no means an expert, but by "not very far", could you be more specific? Assuming you are not circumcised, can you pull the end of your foreskin to or just beyond the edge of "helmet" part?
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I am by no means an expert, but by "not very far", could you be more specific? Assuming you are not circumcised, can you pull the end of your foreskin to or just beyond the edge of "helmet" part?
Not when erect. How far should it go back?
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Not when erect. How far should it go back?
To just beyond the helmet part (head of the penis).
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To just beyond the helmet part (head of the penis).
I can’t get it back that far. Would ******* feel better if I could?
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Poor you :console:
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I'll be honest - 5 inches is normal and some guys can't retract their foreskin too much which is also fine.

Seriously, you're OK. Penises are absolutely beautiful and yours sounds completely fine too. Anyone would be lucky to play with your penis or even worship it. I really do mean this!
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Not when erect. How far should it go back?
As in can you physically not do it or is it just a bit uncomfortable/scary to do? Even when doing it very gently/slowly?
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Poor you :console:
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You're about average so as long as you aren't as annoying as jelly you should be fine.
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