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Pushing and pulling my girlfriend's head back and forth during oral sex

I am having sex with my girlfriend and I push and pull her head back and forth when she goes down on me. Is this normal?? I’ve asked my friends and they said that they don’t do that, but then again they have boyfriends. I have googled it and it doesn’t come up either
Are you male or female and how old are you?
Original post by katharine00
Are you male or female and how old are you?

female. 18
Original post by twinkletoes22
female. 18

Ok. Well I've seen this quite a lot in porn, is this where you found it? My boyfriend does this to me when I give him a blowjob but some people find this degrading. Is your girlfriend OK with it?
Original post by katharine00
Ok. Well I've seen this quite a lot in porn, is this where you found it? My boyfriend does this to me when I give him a blowjob but some people find this degrading. Is your girlfriend OK with it?

No. I just happened to do it once and now I can’t stop. I think she is ok with it, even though she told me once that she couldn’t breathe. I just thought it was abnormal and wanted to know if anyone else does it
Original post by twinkletoes22
No. I just happened to do it once and now I can’t stop. I think she is ok with it, even though she told me once that she couldn’t breathe. I just thought it was abnormal and wanted to know if anyone else does it

Well it wouldn't say that it was normal. Ask your girlfriend how she feels about it. Being a good sex partner is all about communication. If your girlfriend say she's not enjoying it, I would stop doing it.
I sometimes grab onto my boyfriend's hair but I don't think I move his head; a lot of guys do this when their girlfriends are giving blowjobs but I don't know any girls who do it as far as I know. In any case, it just needs to work for you two really. I don't think it's necessarily abnormal, you just need to ask her whether she's okay with it or not.
As a gay guy, I absolutely love it when the person I'm giving oral to, holds my head tenderly or holds onto my arm(s).

But, it you mean rapid/forcefully moving the head up and down, then that would depend on whether or not we were into more domineering acts. It's not for everyone but there are some people who like it. It has to be consensual though. Always ask permission if they're alright for it to be done or if they feel uncomfortable.
there's no "normal" way to get or give a blow joy. its whatever makes your monkey jump. but it has to be consensual. Some ladies I've known love to be choked and gagged to an extreme. Others don't even like their heads touched. Each one is different.
Original post by twinkletoes22
I am having sex with my girlfriend and I push and pull her head back and forth when she goes down on me. Is this normal?? I’ve asked my friends and they said that they don’t do that, but then again they have boyfriends. I have googled it and it doesn’t come up either


i guess you are in a phase where you'd like to discover your sexuality. your soul might be of a man you don't know yet that's within you. or else maybe it's something you like just gain experience and find out yourself.

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