Would it be classed as cheatingWatch
So my husband with whom I have 2 children started uni this year, he started chating on whats up with this fellow student saying I' ll make you my work buddy, then he had a joke about errection , well he is studying cardiac physiology and at the end he went to lend a book to the lidrary where he complimented her , I am not sure if I am over the top with my insecurity, or would it be classed as cheating. P.S. He cheated before and we had no sex for more than a month no, he doesnt ckmpliment me. What would you guys think. He is very charming lier.
I think his is a perfect example of trashy Britishness.
Lol its trashy Zimbabwean 42 year old must be midlife crisis
It's up to every couple to decide what the acceptable boundaries are in their relationship. If you're not sure, discuss it with them and explain that it's made you feel a bit uncomfortable.
But still vulgar and highly unpleasant conduct.
That said, I've had to work with quite a few guys who habitually made crude comments like this; viewing their behaviour as either that of a creepy jerk or the start of sexual harassment by a pervert capable of restraining their hands & feet from earning them a place on the sexual offenders register.
Obviously your situation is complex, but this person has cheated on your and is now flirting with people, so trying to make you feel bad about it seems like a garbage response from them.
This is just something you see every now and then in Britain, it could very well be on an episode of coronation street, hence my comment.