Is it spoilt to cry if you don’t get something you wanted?Watch
I got a new laptop the other day and obviously I showed that I was greatful to my parents. But I had this weird ocd moment that just because the layout of the laptop wasn’t “modern” in my opinion , it drove me to tears and I couldn’t use it because it just angered me. It’s the same when we got the living room decorated and I hated how it looked so I literally don’t go in that room because it makes me physically squirm when I go in there. Idk why I’m like this it’s so stupid but when I don’t get what I want sometimes I have a tantrum (in private obviously) so embarrasing... but actually a issue fr
Perhaps, you should get a job and buy things yourself?
At least that way, you can have your own preference.
But generally this just shows your frustration about things outside of your control. I guess when you grow older and get more independence you won't suffer from this problem as much.
If you have these moments in private then in my point of view it's not spoilt it's kinda worrying - Spoilt is like asking ur parents to buy you a new phone and they say no so you cry and cry in front of ur parents until they go and buy one for u and that's not the case here - its more like u becoming frustrated with it in private which seems kinda worrying.
Also, do u think there may be an underlying thing that is triggering it at all?