How to stop going back to the person you have a soft spot for?

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How to stop blocking them and then a few weeks later unblock them and talk to them. I’m sick of this cycle. I don’t even have romantic feelings for this person I just like to check in but it’s so toxic
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Find a hobby.
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If it's not romantic then what is it?:confused:
Sounds a bit obsessive idk..
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If it's not romantic then what is it?:confused:
Sounds a bit stalkerish idk..
Nah this is not romance it is obsession and dangerous
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Nah this is not romance it is obsession and dangerous
Yeah tbh it does seem that way😶
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U need to realise u blocked them for a reason, u stopped talking to them because they weren’t good for u. I know it’s hard but every time u try to unblock them or message them instead go into your notes and write what u want to write and then delete it afterwards to stop u from messaging them. You’ll be so glad u didn’t reach out if it was truly that toxic; don’t put yourself in that situation. U need to look after yourself before checking in on them, u clearly haven’t healed, I promise it gets better. You’ll eventually not even think about them and everything happens for a reason, it wasn’t meant to be. Have self- respect and move on. If they truly cared about u and treated u the way u deserved they wouldn’t have been blocked in the first place.
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Move on
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I guess you have to divert the energy elsewhere
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May the Force be with you
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How to stop blocking them and then a few weeks later unblock them and talk to them. I’m sick of this cycle. I don’t even have romantic feelings for this person I just like to check in but it’s so toxic
You have blocked them for a reason. Hold on to that next time you feel like unblocking them.

Be strong and move on.
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