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Can we go on a 30 day no contact, it won't be difficult seeing as you're air me from time to time even though I told you how I feel about it. Talking to you only makes me want to get back with you and awakes those feelings I have for you. Even though you say talking to me makes you happy, it really doesn't seem like it when you air me.

I want to send this to my ex. We decided to be friends and go back to the way it was before we went out but it's not the same.
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...it won't be difficult seeing as you're air me from time to time even though I told you how I feel about it.
yes great start no passive aggression there
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Yeah I think you worded it really well and didn’t just blame them which is good
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
yes great start no passive aggression there
That's great to hear. I didn't want to be rude or anything.

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Yeah I think you worded it really well and didn’t just blame them which is good
Yeah I didn't want to accuse him or hurt him, it's not fair on him.
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That's great to hear. I didn't want to be rude or anything.
no im being sarcastic the second part of the first sentence is passive aggressive because you're indirectly saying he's a bad person and using it to justify something you want
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Yeah it never "goes back" to where it was b4.
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Yeah I have a feeling this isnt gonna end well, speaking as a guy
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
no im being sarcastic the second part of the first sentence is passive aggressive because you're indirectly saying he's a bad person and using it to justify something you want
Okay well how about this?

I was thinking of going on a 30 day no contact. Talking to you only makes me want to get back with you and awakes those feelings I have for you. But then Ik that when you talk to me, it makes you happy so I'm just torn apart as I don't know whether we should or not. I don't want to hurt ya.
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(Original post by tbi_zlx)
Yeah I have a feeling this isnt gonna end well, speaking as a guy
What if I say this instead?

I was thinking of going on a 30 day no contact. Talking to you only makes me want to get back with you and awakes those feelings I have for you. But then Ik that when you talk to me, it makes you happy so I'm just torn apart as I don't know whether we should or not. I don't want to hurt ya.
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Can't you just not message them for 30 days instead if that's what you want?
Your message sound very high drama and would just make me groan and roll my eyes if you sent it to me.
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What if I say this instead?

I was thinking of going on a 30 day no contact. Talking to you only makes me want to get back with you and awakes those feelings I have for you. But then Ik that when you talk to me, it makes you happy so I'm just torn apart as I don't know whether we should or not. I don't want to hurt ya.
I dont even the context of why youre sending the text. Are you two broken up and like whats going on
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Can't you just not message them for 30 days instead if that's what you want?
Your message sound very high drama and would just make me groan and roll my eyes if you sent it to me.
Not really, he'll end up messaging me.

I've changed it to this:

I was thinking of going on a 30 day no contact. Talking to you only makes me want to get back with you and awakes those feelings I have for you. But then Ik that when you talk to me, it makes you happy so I'm just torn apart as I don't know whether we should or not. I don't want to hurt ya.
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I dont even the context of why youre sending the text. Are you two broken up and like whats going on
We broke up and decided to stay as friends but it's not working so I want to go into a 30 day no contact and see what happens.
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Not really, he'll end up messaging me.

I've changed it to this:

I was thinking of going on a 30 day no contact. Talking to you only makes me want to get back with you and awakes those feelings I have for you. But then Ik that when you talk to me, it makes you happy so I'm just torn apart as I don't know whether we should or not. I don't want to hurt ya.
Just don't reply if he messages. I'm failing to see how this is such a big drama.
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We broke up and decided to stay as friends but it's not working so I want to go into a 30 day no contact and see what happens.
Yeah that usually doesnt work. I mean just dont message him then. If its not working out tell him straight up. The way youre writing will make him think he will get you back which will just hurt more
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Just don't reply if he messages. I'm failing to see how this is such a big drama.
Kay

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Yeah that usually doesnt work. I mean just dont message him then. If its not working out tell him straight up. The way youre writing will make him think he will get you back which will just hurt more
Nah he's lost feelings at least that's what he told me so I doubt it will make him hopeful. He was the one who broke it off not me.
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Why did you guys break up?
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Why did you guys break up?
He ended it saying he can't manage
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He ended it saying he can't manage
Like manage a relationship or?
What exactly did he say?
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(Original post by Johanny x)
Like manage a relationship or?
What exactly did he say?
The relationship.
It was a long paragraph so I can't really explain it full on yk
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