virgin at 18

i’m sick of being a virgin. i wish i could have sex without being painted as a wh*re like boys. i wouldn’t mind having a fwb, but the only thing stopping me is the idea that someone won’t wanna be with me in the future if i’ve lost it. there’s loads of boys saying any girl with a body count over zero is a wh*re and stupid sh*t like that and i hate it. they’re encouraged to have sex when they want because they get h*rny. like ok? so do girls, but why can’t we have sex when we want? it takes two to do it, so why do they have such a problem? i just wanna have fun like everyone else.

Who gives a f**** about what they think? Own your life and stop listening to bs.

ignore them, their opinion does not matter, do what you want to do!

you’re right, but at the same time i know people won’t like the idea of me losing my virginity to someone who isn’t my bf, and i don’t want to regret it either, so idk what to do.

you’re right, but at the same time i know people won’t like the idea of me losing my virginity to someone who isn’t my bf, and i don’t want to regret it either, so idk what to do.

i’m sick of being a virgin. i wish i could have sex without being painted as a wh*re like boys. i wouldn’t mind having a fwb, but the only thing stopping me is the idea that someone won’t wanna be with me in the future if i’ve lost it. there’s loads of boys saying any girl with a body count over zero is a wh*re and stupid sh*t like that and i hate it. they’re encouraged to have sex when they want because they get h*rny. like ok? so do girls, but why can’t we have sex when we want? it takes two to do it, so why do they have such a problem? i just wanna have fun like everyone else.