In the summer during the COVID lockdown, I went on a dating app and I met a guy. We spoke for about two weeks before we met. He wanted to meet as soon as possible but I was trying to get rid of a yeast infection that i got from a previous partner, (it’s not an STD, it was an allergic reaction or something).
So when we finally met, he drove me to a car park near to the area he lives. We smoked weed and then we went to the back and had sex.
Due to the stress BOTH my ex’s had given me knowing they got married off last summer, I decided to join the app to move on, I didn’t want this summer to go like hell as well.
Anyways, after we first had sex, he said that I’m “weird and nasty” and that he didn’t want to go through with it and that I pulled my pants down straight away. He blocked me and told me numerous times to delete his number.
After about 6 weeks, he texts me and we meet and have sex again. This time he takes my phone and deletes his number himself off my phone.
He kept saying that he “feels like crap” every time he has sex with me. I don’t know why he’d say that.
One day he just told me to give him oral and decides not to have sex, even though that’s what I wanted to do. When I asked him why we can’t have sex, he goes up “Delete my number, are you stupid”. Meaning he didn’t want to. So blocks me.
We meet again and have sex. He goes up that I stress him out that’s why he doesn’t want to have sex with me. And he blocks me again...
Now we haven’t spoken for over a month and he RANDOMLY texts me on WhatsApp saying “Delete my number, your weird”. He says he regretted meeting me even. I then told him that he loved every moment that’s why he met me 3-4 times.
He then tells me that I’m a “dead beat” and calls me a “sl@g” several times, saying that I’m “so easy”.
I have had dates after I lost my ex’s to marriage, one date cost £250ish but I had never had sex with any of them as soon as I found out they’re in it for sex.
I picked the ones I want to be intimate with. He was one of them but I don’t understand why he talks to me like that?