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He seems to hate me - what can I do?

Phantom Phoenix

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(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 1

Valbonne92

Hmmm your boyfriend's dad sounds jelous. As stupid as it may sound I think that is his problem - he can't stand seeing his son love and be with a girl? Correct me if I'm wrong.

I think you should definetly keep talking to your boyfriend about this and if possible, cause a scene in front of his Dad asking him what the ****** his problem is? I think that is the best way to get it out of him cause surely, something is up

Reply 2

she

Maybe he fancies you?

Reply 3

RedRiotRoses

I would see if you can ask the rest of the family, they must have noticed something, see if you can get an answer (or even a clue) from them?

Reply 4

RedRiotRoses

Hmmm, well i really hope something happens that allows you an answer, because no one deserves that kind of treatment. I really hope all goes well for you.

Reply 5

she

If he's always been weird around people then he's probably just scared of you rather than hating you. However, there is the possibility that he's just a jerk :smile:

Reply 6

she

Sounds like my dad :p:

Reply 7

WOLLSMOTH

i think it may be because you're black and his dad is from an older generation who may still hold disgusting racist views. remember, education is the best weapon against fear and prejudice

Reply 8

she

Phantom Phoenix

I'm trying to work out if I should feel bad for ranting now :hmmmm:

No no, rant more, much more!

Reply 9

she

puddlove

Ewww he sounds creepy! Like he secretly fancies you! Icky.

Ha yeah that's what I thought. Maybe he has some sort of fear of getting to know people and has somehow changed that into a fear of fancying you? *tries to amateur analyse him*

Reply 10

WOLLSMOTH

Phantom Phoenix

You could well be right. Except that I'm white. Other than that your theory holds water. :yep:

hmm... maybe... maybe he's black?

Reply 11

MichaelG

WOLLSMOTH

i think it may be because you're black and his dad is from an older generation who may still hold disgusting racist views. remember, education is the best weapon against fear and prejudice

hahaha i love this guy

Reply 12

Lilyvalley

I call ****** on this one.

Reply 13

becki.lyon

Phantom Phoenix

... his dad has never been civil to me. There seems to be no logical reason for this; I liked the guy at first and have continued to be friendly with him despite getting a frozen reception every time. He ignores me when I'm talking, cuts me off, changes the subject, even cuts my boyfriend off when he mentions me. ...It's increasingly becoming a problem as we're in a very serious relationship and my boyfriend obviously wants his family to be happy with me (which all of the rest of them are).

ok... northanger abbey flashback anyone ... thats what u get for dating a priest...i <3 mr tillney x