So me and my parents are talking about what I should make for lunch tomorrow, and when I finish my dinner I go upstairs to get one of the recipes I had for food, and when I come down, my dad starts yelling at me to clear the table. I tell him to wait a minute so I could give him the recipe then I would do it, then he starts yelling more to do it this minute, I tell him I want to cross the room, hand him a book and then go and clear the table, which would literally be in 5 seconds, and to calm down. Then he decides to follow me into the kitchen while I'm taking my plate there shouting about "no one tells me to calm down who do you think you are" and decides to start punching me, and said the next time I tell him to calm down he'd beat the **** out of me and kick me out.
Don't you think it would've been easier to not say anything, accept the book and have the table cleared literally 5 seconds later than create such a fuss?