Crush at work has stopped reaching out. What next?Watch
So fast forward 2 months, and I end up breaking up with my GF for the reasons stated at the beginning of the post. I told her about it, and we continue to text ect but I can tell things are changing. Less texting and I felt as though I had to initiate the contact every time. One day in the office, she tells me she feels I need to be single for a while ect. Not at any point did I tell her I wanted another relationship, but I expressed that I was open to meeting up with her for a date. She tells me that she is going to be busy due to Thanksgiving, Christmas, and upcoming wedding, and her birthday in January. Moreover, she has 2 kids (5f, 7f) and is a single mother, but the father keeps them every other week. I told her that is fine and to let me know when she is free. I also made the point to tell her I wasn't in a rush and is patient. Now she doesn't text at all, and in the office, she seems more distant as well. At this point, we just are coworkers who talk when we need to.
I have stopped texting her , stopped validating her in the office and on social media despite seeing each other in the office M-F. She also one of those women who seems to crave attention (making unecceary noises in the office, being loud for no reason so people can hear).
Is there anything else I can do in addition to what I had just mentioned? Should I expect anything to come from this?
She seems to have made herself clear, she’s not interested.
Leave her alone and move on.
She has probably met someone else or decided that it would be best for her not to get personally involved with a coworker.