Would you girls date someone who went through plastic surgery ?

I am planning on marrying her. And don't you think my secret is kind of like telling her that I murdered someone intentionally ? I am just afraid that she will leave me if she finds out about it.

If you plan on marrying her then you shouldnt have any secrets at all. How long have you been dating?

Around 6month. How would you view it, if your BF did it and then later on reveal it to you ?

6 month is too soon to know who you are going to marry. And 6 month is also too long to of not told her. If i was her id be hurt you hadnt told me sooner! You didnt like something about yourself so you changed it. Its not a big issue she likes you how you look now its not like you’ll suddenly undo it. Confidence is attractive but secrets arent. By the time i knew i wanted to marry my bf we had no secrets. 4 years in and i can **** in front of him, have him shave my legs, he knows all my flaws, hes seen me break down and seen me with depression and unshowered for 3 days. He saw me in hospital with tubes. Nothing i could do could freak him out and thats how you know they are marriage worthy. When they accept everything. If they dont sack em

Yea, around that range.

To me, this would be more of an issue than you having had surgery. I wouldn't date a guy who spent £75,000 on something so unnecessary...

But you also wouldn't date someone who's 5'6. Would you? OP has money and used it to gain something he needed. If I had that amount of money i would have also done so. Girls can get boob enhancement and things like that, and when it comes to boy why do you care?

But you also wouldn't date someone who's 5'6. Would you? OP has money and used it to gain something he needed. If I had that amount of money i would have also done so. Girls can get boob enhancement and things like that, and when it comes to boy why do you care? How much money do you make OP?

......... I was kind of ignored by girls because of my height as i mentioned before. So i can neither agree nor disagree.

About money --- i make a good living. So 100k is kind of negligible compared to that.

But you also wouldn't date someone who's 5'6. Would you? OP has money and used it to gain something he needed. If I had that amount of money i would have also done so. Girls can get boob enhancement and things like that, and when it comes to boy why do you care? How much money do you make OP?

Whay do you do? Are you from a any rich family? How do you earn that much at 27?

There are plenty of men 5'6 who have girlfriends, its not even that short. Couldnt care less about what he does with his body but this is far from something OP 'needed'.

It's no different to any other cosmetic surgery. If OP now feels more confident in himself and has the female attention he wanted then why be snide about it? I'm sure you wouldn't act the same way towards a woman who enhanced certain aspects of her body for the same reasons when financially able to, and if you would, then at least try to be less judgemental going forward.

My intention of that post was not to say it was a bad thing for OP ( or anyone ) to get cosmetic surgery, far from it, but the idea that its something he needed rather than wanted would be wrong. I dont care about what someone else wants to do with their own money and body, if it makes them happy there is no issue.

Yes.
It shows your approach, mentalitity and the fact that you have the commitment to taking the steps necessary to achieve your ambitions.
Although I would be very cautious of dating a guy who had multiple cosmetic surgeries to the point it was a hobby or habit.