How to live with controlling famliy members

Controlling in what way?
How old are you/what’s your living situation?

They control things we do like stopping us doing stuff
I've just turned 21 and its not easy to be honest but its just about doable

Who is “us” ?
What is “stuff”?

Do you work/study?

Me and my siblings
They won't let us spend our own money
Don't let us out
Won't let us move out
Wont let me buy a car even though I passed my test
still kind of ground us
tell us when to go to bed

I'm training atm so I'd say its studying but I do have investments as well for my income

You're a over 18, you can do whatever you want. If you feel it's not possible while living with them, move out. They can't legally stop you.

Yes but im going to have to deal with it thats what im asking im asking how I can deal with it

Yes but im going to have to deal with it thats what im asking im asking how I can deal with it

You’re 21-your finances should be in your control if you have earned them.
But you live under their roof so I’d expect you pay them money for rent and expenses etc.

To some extent -their house their rules though.

I pay rent

Bit of a question, is this within a asian family or white?

Okaaay... as I would expect given your age.
Why not save up and move out then?

I can't help you, I'm afraid. Why people stay in a situation where they're clearly unhappy and miserable, when they have an option to leave, is beyond me.