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Hey guys,

I’m just posting this to get some opinions and to clear my mind. Basically I’m not sure how to feel about my boyfriend watching porn, mainly because I know it’s amateur stuff and I get self-conscious about myself and the videos we make not being enough.

This is mainly aimed at guys - what’s your thoughts on watching porn whilst in a relationship?
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Guy here.

Usually I’d just use the thoughts of myself and my partners sex life and generally amongst my friends we do this the most.

However, sometimes it’s just nice to have a bit of visual aid. It’s not like we’re sat there fantasizing about the woman in the video or wishing our partners looked like that. It’s just nice to have something visual there sometimes, atleast for me it’s more the watching people have sex that helps me rather than omg that girl is so fit.

It doesn’t mean anything and is totally normal, don’t worry about it.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Guy here.

Usually I’d just use the thoughts of myself and my partners sex life and generally amongst my friends we do this the most.

However, sometimes it’s just nice to have a bit of visual aid. It’s not like we’re sat there fantasizing about the woman in the video or wishing our partners looked like that. It’s just nice to have something visual there sometimes, atleast for me it’s more the watching people have sex that helps me rather than omg that girl is so fit.

It doesn’t mean anything and is totally normal, don’t worry about it.
thank you so so much, that rlly helps
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Hi I'm not a dude but I have an opinion too lol! Porn always seems to make girls worry about not being "enuf" in one way or another. But all guys watch it. Plenty of girls too.

If u want to make a serious attempt to get into his mind and praps enjoy with him try the following. Have some drinks first and then ask him to cue up his fave. Get him to narrate what gets him horny as u watch. Get into position so that u can f him while he is watching... if u can get past the inhibitions/mental lockup u may find this horny...u will also accomplish another much more profound objective.

If a girl is worried about a dude's porn habit the very worst thing to do is to turn it into a test or try to make it aversive to him via negging or shaming or nagging...coz she is gonna lose eventually. Getting inside it with him is better for both of u and the method above is one way. U have to suspend judgment on his sexual tastes and preferences while u do this or it won't work but if u can do so he will be very pleased but also respectful of ur capacity to understand him and his motives in a way that may surprise him.

Coz let's be honest all TSR dudes are conditioned to xpect considerable female negging for their porn habits.....
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tysm!
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(Original post by candydiva)
Hi I'm not a dude but I have an opinion too lol! Porn always seems to make girls worry about not being "enuf" in one way or another. But all guys watch it. Plenty of girls too.

If u want to make a serious attempt to get into his mind and praps enjoy with him try the following. Have some drinks first and then ask him to cue up his fave. Get him to narrate what gets him horny as u watch. Get into position so that u can f him while he is watching... if u can get past the inhibitions/mental lockup u may find this horny...u will also accomplish another much more profound objective.

If a girl is worried about a dude's porn habit the very worst thing to do is to turn it into a test or try to make it aversive to him via negging or shaming or nagging...coz she is gonna lose eventually. Getting inside it with him is better for both of u and the method above is one way. U have to suspend judgment on his sexual tastes and preferences while u do this or it won't work but if u can do so he will be very pleased but also respectful of ur capacity to understand him and his motives in a way that may surprise him.

Coz let's be honest all TSR dudes are conditioned to xpect considerable female negging for their porn habits.....
okie ty!!
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