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I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
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Can’t get over a first love if you never had one in the first place. The bag always come first before a relationship 💯
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I think you should keep yourself busy with work/college/school and any hobbies you have, you don’t move on by thinking about it but time + keeping busy = growth
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You shouldnt need to talk to a professional about a breakup, its only been a month at that.. Sadness is normal.
Eat some chocolate and make sure you're taking care of yourself.
Eat some chocolate and make sure you're taking care of yourself.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
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Probably around 10 months total. A few months towards the end of the relationship when we were sorta "on a break" and I'd basically accepted it was over. And then another 6 months after the actual end when I realised I wasn't in love with him anymore.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
May I ask how old you are? I went through a breakup similar to that recently also, so I can tell u what I did to get over it
May I ask how old you are? I went through a breakup similar to that recently also, so I can tell u what I did to get over it
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m 20, and it was my first proper relationship.
I’m 20, and it was my first proper relationship.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m 20, and it was my first proper relationship.
I’m 20, and it was my first proper relationship.
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(Original post by Tashax2)
I’m in a similar boat I’ve been on and off with one guy since jan and I tried to get over him but I feel like it’s impossible
I’m in a similar boat I’ve been on and off with one guy since jan and I tried to get over him but I feel like it’s impossible
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It took me 7 years but mainly because there was abuse/trauma involved, so there was a lot of mind**** to deal with 
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(Original post by The_Lonely_Goatherd)
It took me 7 years but mainly because there was abuse/trauma involved, so there was a lot of mind**** to deal with
It took me 7 years but mainly because there was abuse/trauma involved, so there was a lot of mind**** to deal with
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
Honestly, it can be hard and getting support from someone else could be the best way to go on
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
I wasn’t in the relationship long, about 6 months, but the breakup that I made, felt quite sudden. It was like we were happy one minute and the next a flood of unhappiness washed over me and I could no longer see a future with him. I’m devastated how things ended but I couldn’t expect anything else. It may be too early to say “i should be over him by now” it’s only been a month and during this time I’ve had massive wake up calls that a breakup is not the end of the world. But I want to know how long it took you, and if I continue to feel like this, 2, 3 months down the line, even though I’m the one that ended it, should I consider talking to someone professional?
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