Do I look the fool/flirting with a guy that's hot but not a great guy?

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So I use to flirt with this guy from sixth form and I find him extremely sexy, we use to flirt all the time and I mean this guy is drop dead gorgeous, completely my type physically.
So we flirted for like a year and he wanted to take me out and date me but I thought he was a player, I just knew he wouldn't be a great boyfriend and although we got on alright, he took himself way too seriously and I was put off by his cockiness so I completely rejected him romantically, I never hit him up or anything.

Then he got a girlfriend and he still tried to flirt with me, but I wouldn't sleep with him because obviously I thought it was morally wrong, we deleted each other and everything -- I didn't tell the girlfriend, I should've but I didn't want to get involved. My mum told me that I shouldn't, I would say I'm quite a weak person as well and I'm very non-confrontational.

So nine months later, he adds me saying he's split up with his girlfriend and accuses me of calling his girlfriend up and talking ****? Which I get seriously offended by being that I don't know his girlfriend or him that well, like we aren't in the same social circles, never even been in the same vicinity as his girlfriend -- I practically don't know her at all. It offended me that he accused me and I was pissed off and he apologised.

The problem is I find him so attractive even though he's a complete ****, like I am not attracted to his personality at all I know he's a big cheater and he can't take banter, but I would still do a friends with benefits thing with him, does that make me look stupid? Am I not respecting myself if I just purely want sex out of it? I don't want to look like I'm being used, but I feel like I'm not because I don't want to be with him, just want to mess around with him.
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you've gassed this guy up so much that even i want to see what he looks like and i'm straight.

pics?
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No.
Flirting is fun but no more.

You know that this guy is to hot to handle, not compatible with you, unlikely to be good bf material and probably has a very short attention span.
He may be intrigued at hearing the word "no" from you and see a hookup as an exciting challenge.
Don't allow him to waste your time or play with your emotions.
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you will look like a fool

unless you're 100% certain you won't catch feelings, and your emotions and feelings won't cloud your judgement

only have sex with him if you won't forget that he's a bad person, and if you will treat him like he's a bad person, treat him like dirt- hot/cold, he deserves it for being a cheater and disrespecting u with those accusations

only if you can USE him for ur own benefit, then do it

thing is its very unlikely you can act this way, u said ur weak and non-confrontational, so unless u do what I said above, yes you will look like a fool
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Hi there
Well he is gorgeous, you find him physically attractive; he is a bad man...
You want to be friend with benefits with him, go for it.
It is not as if you wanted a relationship, so just go for it.
Just hope you will not regret later.
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Feels like this is an itch you need to scratch
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Bang Outta Order
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Screw everything else because why the hell are you still talking to a guy who you never even dated and haven't heard from in nine months.
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(Original post by ANM775)
you've gassed this guy up so much that even i want to see what he looks like and i'm straight.

pics?
Lmaooooo, facts. I think we all want to see this alleged Greek god who makes girls mad with lust.
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(Original post by Bang Outta Order)
Screw everything else because why the hell are you still talking to a guy who you never even dated and haven't heard from in nine months.
It’s obvious, my lad!

Her lust overpowers the fact that he’s not a great guy!!
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(Original post by Celtic Conjurer)
It’s obvious, Conner my lad! She gets so horny from seeing him that she just wants his D in her 🙈

Her lust overpowers the fact that he’s not a great guy!!
How tf do you know my name. Don't go telling my business 👉👨
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How tf do you know my name. Don't go telling my business 👉👨
Bro you’ve posted your own name on this website before lmaooo. That’s how we know it ; )
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Bro you’ve posted your own name on this website before lmaooo. That’s how we know it ; )
Yh ages ago......dont think we've ever spoken so who is you
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Yh ages ago......dont think we've ever spoken so who is you
We have spoken, bro. I’m Celtic Conjurer.
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We have spoken, bro. I’m Celtic Conjurer.
Lol smh 👍
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