Do I look the fool/flirting with a guy that's hot but not a great guy?Watch
So we flirted for like a year and he wanted to take me out and date me but I thought he was a player, I just knew he wouldn't be a great boyfriend and although we got on alright, he took himself way too seriously and I was put off by his cockiness so I completely rejected him romantically, I never hit him up or anything.
Then he got a girlfriend and he still tried to flirt with me, but I wouldn't sleep with him because obviously I thought it was morally wrong, we deleted each other and everything -- I didn't tell the girlfriend, I should've but I didn't want to get involved. My mum told me that I shouldn't, I would say I'm quite a weak person as well and I'm very non-confrontational.
So nine months later, he adds me saying he's split up with his girlfriend and accuses me of calling his girlfriend up and talking ****? Which I get seriously offended by being that I don't know his girlfriend or him that well, like we aren't in the same social circles, never even been in the same vicinity as his girlfriend -- I practically don't know her at all. It offended me that he accused me and I was pissed off and he apologised.
The problem is I find him so attractive even though he's a complete ****, like I am not attracted to his personality at all I know he's a big cheater and he can't take banter, but I would still do a friends with benefits thing with him, does that make me look stupid? Am I not respecting myself if I just purely want sex out of it? I don't want to look like I'm being used, but I feel like I'm not because I don't want to be with him, just want to mess around with him.
Flirting is fun but no more.
You know that this guy is to hot to handle, not compatible with you, unlikely to be good bf material and probably has a very short attention span.
He may be intrigued at hearing the word "no" from you and see a hookup as an exciting challenge.
Don't allow him to waste your time or play with your emotions.
unless you're 100% certain you won't catch feelings, and your emotions and feelings won't cloud your judgement
only have sex with him if you won't forget that he's a bad person, and if you will treat him like he's a bad person, treat him like dirt- hot/cold, he deserves it for being a cheater and disrespecting u with those accusations
only if you can USE him for ur own benefit, then do it
thing is its very unlikely you can act this way, u said ur weak and non-confrontational, so unless u do what I said above, yes you will look like a fool
Well he is gorgeous, you find him physically attractive; he is a bad man...
You want to be friend with benefits with him, go for it.
It is not as if you wanted a relationship, so just go for it.
Just hope you will not regret later.