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so my whole extended family is a mixture of catholics and hindus and i dont really have a mental image of god but just do like my mental image of god is constantly being changed whether it parodies Christianity or Hinduism. My dad is an alcoholic and hes the worst and my mum always says to me and my older sibling that she prays for us and everything we have gone through and we have a good future and now I am 15 and my home life has changed in no way whatsoever and even my school hasnt changed that much except from me getting good grades this year. I know life is what you make it but idk
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Convert to Islam.
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And out of everyone God chose you?
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And out of everyone God chose you?
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Convert to Islam.
From the stovetop to the nazi book burnings then.
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Convert to Islam.
Muslim here, worry about yourself mate. Let the people lead their path, it's not our problem or responsibility, we can only hope.
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so my whole extended family is a mixture of catholics and hindus and i dont really have a mental image of god but just do like my mental image of god is constantly being changed whether it parodies Christianity or Hinduism. My dad is an alcoholic and hes the worst and my mum always says to me and my older sibling that she prays for us and everything we have gone through and we have a good future and now I am 15 and my home life has changed in no way whatsoever and even my school hasnt changed that much except from me getting good grades this year. I know life is what you make it but idk
you need to focus on the good bits of your life. it is wonderful that you are doing so well in school. by getting good results you can take control of your life in the future and have an interesting career.
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thats because only you can solve your problems not a fictional god
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Convert to Islam.
kind of given up on religion
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you need to focus on the good bits of your life. it is wonderful that you are doing so well in school. by getting good results you can take control of your life in the future and have an interesting career.
yeah but its just like 15 years and i am still stuck here nothings changed except from my grades
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God doesn’t care about you basically, that should be self-evident I think.
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Hey im muslim but ive felt distanced from my religion... tbh its up to you whether you want to believe in god or not, your life your decision, but dont give up on your religion that easily practice it tell someone perhaps at a local mandir or a church wherever you go to pray i guess. We can talk if you wanna? im 16 in year 11
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yeah but its just like 15 years and i am still stuck here nothings changed except from my grades
You say that like you’re not a 15 year old - but a 40 year old.
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Hey im muslim but ive felt distanced from my religion... tbh its up to you whether you want to believe in god or not, your life your decision, but dont give up on your religion that easily practice it tell someone perhaps at a local mandir or a church wherever you go to pray i guess. We can talk if you wanna? im 16 in year 11
nah i dont have a "religion" as my family is a mixture of Catholics and Hindus and my mum always says to me that she prays for us when my dad gets drunk and shes been saying that for 15 years
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kind of given up on religion

yeah but its just like 15 years and i am still stuck here nothings changed except from my grades
I think you should wait another 15 years before claiming nothing has changed.
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nah i dont have a "religion" as my family is a mixture of Catholics and Hindus and my mum always says to me that she prays for us when my dad gets drunk and shes been saying that for 15 years
If your dad has a drinking problem he needs professional help. He's not gonna do it, so it's unfortunately down to one of you guys to get him sorted out. But at least you will have tried if it doesn't work out as planned. Do your family members argue a lot or get along with the mixed religious beliefs?
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If your dad has a drinking problem he needs professional help. He's not gonna do it, so it's unfortunately down to one of you guys to get him sorted out. But at least you will have tried if it doesn't work out as planned. Do your family members argue a lot or get along with the mixed religious beliefs?
we get along with the mixed beliefs and yes we argue like a lot but its got nothing to do with the religion but he wont go professional help
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kind of given up on religion
That's a positive. Now you can focus on what's true.

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My dad is an alcoholic
I'm sorry to hear that.

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getting good grades this year. I know life is what you make it but idk
Getting good grades will open-up more opportunities for you. Good luck.
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we get along with the mixed beliefs and yes we argue like a lot but its got nothing to do with the religion but he wont go professional help
Yeah listen, people with addictions rarely get help. It's unfortunately down to loved ones to get help for them. He doesn't understand that an early horrible death will affect all of you. I think you or your mum or someone should get together and come up with a plan to help him out - if that don't work then at least you can't be guilty of not trying.

What are the arguments about? Does that affect your life?
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Yeah listen, people with addictions rarely get help. It's unfortunately down to loved ones to get help for them. He doesn't understand that an early horrible death will affect all of you. I think you or your mum or someone should get together and come up with a plan to help him out - if that don't work then at least you can't be guilty of not trying.

What are the arguments about? Does that affect your life?
yeah well my mum doesnt want me getting involved so she and my older sibling (18) have tried planning everything and nothing has work and i dont want to talk about the arguments as they are personal
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yeah well my mum doesnt want me getting involved so she and my older sibling (18) have tried planning everything and nothing has work and i dont want to talk about the arguments as they are personal
Fair enough. Well then, if you've already tried the professional and medical help route, I'm afraid there's not much else you can do. You gotta live your own life ya know? Sad situation but you gotta distance yourself from his destructive behaviour.
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