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My dad abused me sexually when I was a young teenager.
I hate him, completely and utterly.

However I feel like I am wrecking everything by holding onto my hate for him.
I don't know if I am exaggerating things and I feel like I need to appreciate him BUT i can't.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
My dad abused me sexually when I was a young teenager.
I hate him, completely and utterly.

However I feel like I am wrecking everything by holding onto my hate for him.
I don't know if I am exaggerating things and I feel like I need to appreciate him BUT i can't.
I would still hate him to be honest. But you can choose not to express it openly if that is the issue.
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I would still hate him to be honest. But you can choose not to express it openly if that is the issue.
I choose not to express it but it makes my life hell because it distroys me emotionally.
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I would still hate him to be honest. But you can choose not to express it openly if that is the issue.
I snap his glasses today, because I hate him. But I am going to 'put a lid on it', because it isn't a good game to be playing.
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I choose not to express it but it makes my life hell because it distroys me emotionally.
(Original post by Anonymous)
I snap his glasses today, because I hate him. But I am going to 'put a lid on it', because it isn't a good game to be playing.
You can still express it but please do tone it down. If he is guilty of the alleged crime, then I hate him too, but I don't condone a wrong in response to another wrong. Sorry.
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I snap his glasses today, because I hate him. But I am going to 'put a lid on it', because it isn't a good game to be playing.
Honestly be careful with what you do because he might be abusive if he's capable of doing what he's done so don't piss him off to much or anything and try to stay safe until you can move out of the house
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You can still express it but please do tone it down. If he is guilty of the alleged crime, then I hate him too, but I don't condone a wrong in response to another wrong. Sorry.
I wasn't asking you to condone any thing illegal. Sorry if I didn't make that clear. As I said I am not going to go anymore.
Thank.
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Honestly be careful with what you do because he might be abusive if he's capable of doing what he's done so don't piss him off to much or anything and try to stay safe until you can move out of the house
Yeah I am mindful of that. That is partially why I am not going to anymore (I also don't want to be like him).
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Yeah I am mindful of that. That is partially why I am not going to anymore (I also don't want to be like him).
Yeah and once you can get therapy or some kind of professional help please even if you think you don't need it
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You are so brave and a survivor.
Put your health and safety first- don't allow the evil imposed upon you in the past to ruin your future.
Life is too short to waste on such destructive negative emotions like hatred and rage.
Focus on all the positive things in your life, the people who make your happy, favourite hobbies, ambitions and the future life that you want.
Good luck!
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You are so brave and a survivor.
Put your health and safety first- don't allow the evil imposed upon you in the past to ruin your future.
Life is too short to waste on such destructive negative emotions like hatred and rage.
Focus on all the positive things in your life, the people who make your happy, favourite hobbies, ambitions and the future life that you want.
Good luck!
Thank you. Your posts are always very kind and meaningful.
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