How to approach a guy you like

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I have never been in a relationship of any sort and apart from a few failed talking stages have no experience in this area. I have of course liked guys in the past but have never really done anything about it apart from one time when I admitted my feelings but got rejected.
There is a guy whom I have recently met who seems nice - I'm certaintly not head over heels but even so it seems like we have a lot in common and I'd like to be friends even if not anything more. How do I go about this? I always seem to mess things up by getting nervous/ on edge/ become distant for fears that they will notice I am attracted to them - as you can see i am quite immature/ self conscious and would like to change things. Thanks
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ishmalareej
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be yourself, take things slow and steady, just talk to him , tell him insecurities and self consciousness, hell then know where to be careful and at the same time let/ make him feel loved, don't leave on read or reply late (if you do tell him it was a mistake or you don't check your phone often?), don't be someone you think he wants. stay yourself. don't overthink anything. tell him what your thinking most of the time and ask him for his thoughts. first do things you have in common together to build chemistry and understanding and comfort
hope that helps x
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Hi there
You are not immature.
You are just self concious and afraid.
If you are afraid that they might know you like them, just start with being friends. You could just start to try to talk with them from time to time.
After that, why not asking for their phone number, so that you could chat together and try to know each other better.
You never know, maybe while chatting with them you might realise that you are not that attracted to them.
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You walk with your feet and say “hey what’s up?” 😃
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