Some ways you can cope, do even fightback with mean, negative people

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I have experienced some bullying, people making fun of me, putting me down, belittling, giving the silent treatment.

These are some ways you can cope and do:

Active:

-Relax, don't care, ignore, don't be sensitive
-Be happy
-Just indicate you disregard, for example, you can look at your watch, then do something
-If they say anything mean, insulting-give it them back, you could say 'I never knew you cared or was obsessed with me'.
-Mirror them, if they disregard you, do the same

Passive:

-Cut them out
-Don't care, don't say anything or do anything
-Be silent (in the sense don't visit their house or communicate with them, don't look to show them)

-Keep your distance
-Be independent
-Have goals, follow through
-Achieve, take care of yourself, make a success of yourself
-live well
-Have friends, have fun

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I think cutting people out is the most effective, but if you are related to them, then this option might not be possible so just try to avoid them as much as possible and make sure the interactions are only when necessary and try to act civil around them and make these interactions brief.
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