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So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi, firstly I'd like to say that if you decide to get an abortion that it is your personal choice and you are NOT a bad person. I advise not getting an abortion with the only reason being pressure due to family, it is an emotional process and the decision cannot be undone. Do you mind me asking how old you are just so I can understand how reliant you are on your family?
Hi, firstly I'd like to say that if you decide to get an abortion that it is your personal choice and you are NOT a bad person. I advise not getting an abortion with the only reason being pressure due to family, it is an emotional process and the decision cannot be undone. Do you mind me asking how old you are just so I can understand how reliant you are on your family?
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So reason for abortion is due to financial issues, fear of becoming homeless, demand of support..
I understand how you are feeling, this may not be a very pro-life decision (many may view this as ethically wrong, and that it’s killing a human)
however, on the basis of the scenario, if you feel comfortable undergoing this, make sure you make your decision carefully. You can change your mind at any time, don’t feel pressured or anything. Take a considerable amount of time to think about this
I understand how you are feeling, this may not be a very pro-life decision (many may view this as ethically wrong, and that it’s killing a human)
however, on the basis of the scenario, if you feel comfortable undergoing this, make sure you make your decision carefully. You can change your mind at any time, don’t feel pressured or anything. Take a considerable amount of time to think about this
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
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IF anyone says to you abortions is unethical and all that **** they say;
IGNORE. Your body, your choice. Because, the people being all don't get an abortion and calling you things are the people SAYING if you can't take care of a child do not have it. So, DO WHAT YOU WANT.
Nobody is here to judge, and you need to put yourself first now, because when that baby is born the next 18 years that baby will come first! x
However, please think it through because you may regret it and things like this you need to think about properly!
IGNORE. Your body, your choice. Because, the people being all don't get an abortion and calling you things are the people SAYING if you can't take care of a child do not have it. So, DO WHAT YOU WANT.
Nobody is here to judge, and you need to put yourself first now, because when that baby is born the next 18 years that baby will come first! x
However, please think it through because you may regret it and things like this you need to think about properly!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
Clearly you need and are going to need support - it's concerning that you have family but are worried about homelessness. Can you find ways to build better support?
You'll get strong responses to the prospect of abortion, but you need to think about what you (and a potential child) needs to succeed. No you are not a bad person for thinking about it as an option.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
So I’m 6 weeks pregnant and I made the mistake of telling everyone family wise but now I’m having second thoughts I’m about to be homeless and I have seriously bad anxiety so I’m thinking of getting an abortion am I a seriously bad person ?
I’ve also developed HG and have been vomiting every single day Snd I can’t coupe anymore
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(Original post by 2500_2)
Bad morning sickness is incredibly hard to cope with and it definitely can be enough on its own to make you question going on. Please know you are very far from being the only person experiencing this.
Clearly you need and are going to need support - it's concerning that you have family but are worried about homelessness. Can you find ways to build better support?
You'll get strong responses to the prospect of abortion, but you need to think about what you (and a potential child) needs to succeed. No you are not a bad person for thinking about it as an option.
Bad morning sickness is incredibly hard to cope with and it definitely can be enough on its own to make you question going on. Please know you are very far from being the only person experiencing this.
Clearly you need and are going to need support - it's concerning that you have family but are worried about homelessness. Can you find ways to build better support?
You'll get strong responses to the prospect of abortion, but you need to think about what you (and a potential child) needs to succeed. No you are not a bad person for thinking about it as an option.
In regards to my family yes they might be excited for me but they don’t care about me in the sense of I’m on my own in this battle I have to deal with it myself I have no support system or friends
I just don’t know where to turn to for advice I called BPAS and they said they can’t fund me and I’ll need to be refereed but by who? I’m not ringing my doctors as I know someone from my school who works reception and she’ll tell everyone as I have to tell them the issue why I need to speak to a doctor
I’m really fed up and at a lose end
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(Original post by deadroseex)
IF anyone says to you abortions is unethical and all that **** they say;
IGNORE. Your body, your choice. Because, the people being all don't get an abortion and calling you things are the people SAYING if you can't take care of a child do not have it. So, DO WHAT YOU WANT.
Nobody is here to judge, and you need to put yourself first now, because when that baby is born the next 18 years that baby will come first! x
However, please think it through because you may regret it and things like this you need to think about properly!
IF anyone says to you abortions is unethical and all that **** they say;
IGNORE. Your body, your choice. Because, the people being all don't get an abortion and calling you things are the people SAYING if you can't take care of a child do not have it. So, DO WHAT YOU WANT.
Nobody is here to judge, and you need to put yourself first now, because when that baby is born the next 18 years that baby will come first! x
However, please think it through because you may regret it and things like this you need to think about properly!
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(Original post by ROTL94)
Where's the dad in all this?
Where's the dad in all this?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m not ringing my doctors as I know someone from my school who works reception and she’ll tell everyone as I have to tell them the issue why I need to speak to a doctor
I’m really fed up and at a lose end
I’m not ringing my doctors as I know someone from my school who works reception and she’ll tell everyone as I have to tell them the issue why I need to speak to a doctor
I’m really fed up and at a lose end
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Have you got housing advice from a charity or spoken with your local authority?
If you are a UK citizen you are entitled to free emergency assistance with new accomodation and will be viewed as high priority by your local authority while you are pregnant.
https://england.shelter.org.uk/housi...pregnant_women
If you are a UK citizen you are entitled to free emergency assistance with new accomodation and will be viewed as high priority by your local authority while you are pregnant.
https://england.shelter.org.uk/housi...pregnant_women
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Yes the morning sickness is unbearable im in hospital weekly for IV fluids as I’m dehydrated from HG
In regards to my family yes they might be excited for me but they don’t care about me in the sense of I’m on my own in this battle I have to deal with it myself I have no support system or friends
I just don’t know where to turn to for advice I called BPAS and they said they can’t fund me and I’ll need to be refereed but by who? I’m not ringing my doctors as I know someone from my school who works reception and she’ll tell everyone as I have to tell them the issue why I need to speak to a doctor
I’m really fed up and at a lose end
Yes the morning sickness is unbearable im in hospital weekly for IV fluids as I’m dehydrated from HG
In regards to my family yes they might be excited for me but they don’t care about me in the sense of I’m on my own in this battle I have to deal with it myself I have no support system or friends
I just don’t know where to turn to for advice I called BPAS and they said they can’t fund me and I’ll need to be refereed but by who? I’m not ringing my doctors as I know someone from my school who works reception and she’ll tell everyone as I have to tell them the issue why I need to speak to a doctor
I’m really fed up and at a lose end
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(Original post by 2500_2)
This can't possibly all be true - to be only 6 weeks pregnant (ie to have found out only in the last couple of weeks), but needing to be weekly in hospital for HG is certainly tragically possible. But in those circumstances, you would have spoken many times to your GP and raising the option of therapeutic abortion would not be difficult.
This can't possibly all be true - to be only 6 weeks pregnant (ie to have found out only in the last couple of weeks), but needing to be weekly in hospital for HG is certainly tragically possible. But in those circumstances, you would have spoken many times to your GP and raising the option of therapeutic abortion would not be difficult.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
How isn’t it true everything I’m saying is true I’m 6 weeks , I have hG and weekly in hospital tel me what’s not true
How isn’t it true everything I’m saying is true I’m 6 weeks , I have hG and weekly in hospital tel me what’s not true
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(Original post by Anonymous)
The part about calling my gp that is hard is that I know someone who works reception who I have to talk to and explain why I need to talk to a doctor and they are rude if u say I don’t want to say they go “ Wel I need to know roughly otherwise I can’t refer u to the right doctor “ that’s why it’s hard to talk to the gp I rarely go only Whne needed
The part about calling my gp that is hard is that I know someone who works reception who I have to talk to and explain why I need to talk to a doctor and they are rude if u say I don’t want to say they go “ Wel I need to know roughly otherwise I can’t refer u to the right doctor “ that’s why it’s hard to talk to the gp I rarely go only Whne needed
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(Original post by Anonymous)
The part about calling my gp that is hard is that I know someone who works reception who I have to talk to and explain why I need to talk to a doctor and they are rude if u say I don’t want to say they go “ Wel I need to know roughly otherwise I can’t refer u to the right doctor “ that’s why it’s hard to talk to the gp I rarely go only Whne needed
The part about calling my gp that is hard is that I know someone who works reception who I have to talk to and explain why I need to talk to a doctor and they are rude if u say I don’t want to say they go “ Wel I need to know roughly otherwise I can’t refer u to the right doctor “ that’s why it’s hard to talk to the gp I rarely go only Whne needed
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(Original post by Anonymous)
How isn’t it true everything I’m saying is true I’m 6 weeks , I have hG and weekly in hospital tel me what’s not true
How isn’t it true everything I’m saying is true I’m 6 weeks , I have hG and weekly in hospital tel me what’s not true
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