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With autistic people, relationships are hard to create because girls and boys or humans or people can’t understand their autism.

My strict rules are:

Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be:
Understand and respect my autism
A living brother to carry on their maiden name
Cooking abilities to be able to do the cooking in the house for the children and me
Be a woman as I hate same sex marriage
Have a birthday in November or June or February or if not my children will
An easy to spell name
Want 7 children like me
Be younger than me by at least a year
Be a Seventh Day Adventist
And that is all the requirements Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be.

Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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Hello My Friends on TSR, How are you all?

With autistic people, relationships are hard to create because girls and boys or humans or people can’t understand their autism.

My strict rules are:

Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be:
A living brother to carry on their maiden name
Cooking abilities to be able to do the cooking in the for the children and me
Be a woman as I hate same sex marriage
Have a birthday in November or June or February or if not my children will
An easy to spell name
Be younger than me by at least a year
Be a Seventh Day Adventist
And that is all the requirements Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be.

Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
Maybe you will meet a nice girl at your church one day Michael but I think you should consider whether you could show a bit of flexibility over some of your other rules?
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The seventh day adventist rule is likely to be the most restrictive one that will rule out a lot of women that meet your other criteria.
Have you considered being open to dating other protestant christians or traditionalist women who are willing to accomodate your belief in observing a saturday sabbath?
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Maybe you will meet a nice girl at your church one day Michael but I think you should consider whether you could show a bit of flexibility over some of your other rules?
Like which ones? give examples of which rules you want to me to show a bit of flexibility over. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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Hello My Friends on TSR, How are you all?

With autistic people, relationships are hard to create because girls and boys or humans or people can’t understand their autism.

My strict rules are:

Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be:
A living brother to carry on their maiden name
Cooking abilities to be able to do the cooking in the house for the children and me
Be a woman as I hate same sex marriage
Have a birthday in November or June or February or if not my children will
An easy to spell name
Be younger than me by at least a year
Be a Seventh Day Adventist
And that is all the requirements Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be.

Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
you hate same sex marriage, huh? what's so bad about it, bby.
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Ok, cheers for that, Michael.
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Like which ones? give examples of which rules you want to me to show a bit of flexibility over. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
Like the month of her birthday or an easy to spell name? Having fewer rules would make it easier
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The seventh day adventist rule is likely to be the most restrictive one that will rule out a lot of women that meet your other criteria.
Have you considered being open to dating other protestant christians or traditionalist women who are willing to accomodate your belief in observing a saturday sabbath?
No, I haven’t. I might have to consider that. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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Hello My Friends on TSR, How are you all?

With autistic people, relationships are hard to create because girls and boys or humans or people can’t understand their autism.

My strict rules are:

Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be:
A living brother to carry on their maiden name
Cooking abilities to be able to do the cooking in the house for the children and me
Be a woman as I hate same sex marriage
Have a birthday in November or June or February or if not my children will
An easy to spell name
Be younger than me by at least a year
Be a Seventh Day Adventist
And that is all the requirements Anyone who I marry or is my girlfriend must have or be.

Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
What are the reasons behind each rule? I'm genuinely curious.
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you hate same sex marriage, huh? what's so bad about it, bby.
Seventh day adventists are very religious people who believe that religious scripture is infallible.
They tend to be very traditionalist to the point that many are opposed to body piercings, wearing bracelets and participating in secular entertainments like the theatre, dancing or sports games.
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Seventh day adventists are very religious people who believe that religious scripture is infallible.
They tend to be very traditionalist to the point that many are opposed to body piercings, wearing bracelets and participating in secular entertainments like the theatre, dancing or sports games.
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you hate same sex marriage, huh? what's so bad about it, bby.
My religion doesn’t believe in it as the Bible says “Homosexuality verses in the Bible

Sodom’s Depravity

“Now the two angels came to Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gate of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to meet them, and he bowed himself with his face toward the ground. And he said, “Here now, my lords, please turn in to your servant’s house and spend the night, and wash your feet; then you may rise early and go on your way.” And they said, “No, but we will spend the night in the open square.” But he insisted strongly; so they turned in to him and entered his house. Then he made them a feast, and baked unleavened bread, and they ate. Now before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both old and young, all the people from every quarter, surrounded the house. And they called to Lot and said to him, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we may know them carnally. ” So Lot went out to them through the doorway, shut the door behind him, and said, “Please, my brethren, do not do so wickedly! See now, I have two daughters who have not known a man; please, let me bring them out to you, and you may do to them as you wish; only do nothing to these men, since this is the reason they have come under the shadow of my roof.” And they said, “Stand back!” Then they said, “This one came in to stay here, and he keeps acting as a judge; now we will deal worse with you than with them.” So they pressed hard against the man Lot, and came near to break down the door. But the men reached out their hands and pulled Lot into the house with them, and shut the door. And they struck the men who were at the doorway of the house with blindness, both small and great, so that they became weary trying to find the door. Then the men said to Lot, “Have you anyone else here? Son-in-law, your sons, your daughters, and whomever you have in the city— take them out of this place! For we will destroy this place, because the outcry against them has grown great before the face of the LORD, and the LORD has sent us to destroy it.” So Lot went out and spoke to his sons-in-law, who had married his daughters, and said, “Get up, get out of this place; for the LORD will destroy this city!” But to his sons-in-law he seemed to be joking. When the morning dawned, the angels urged Lot to hurry, saying, “Arise, take your wife and your two daughters who are here, lest you be consumed in the punishment of the city.” And while he lingered, the men took hold of his hand, his wife’s hand, and the hands of his two daughters, the LORD being merciful to him, and they brought him out and set him outside the city. So it came to pass, when they had brought them outside, that he said, “Escape for your life! Do not look behind you nor stay anywhere in the plain. Escape to the mountains, lest you be destroyed.” Then Lot said to them, “Please, no, my lords! Indeed now, your servant has found favor in your sight, and you have increased your mercy which you have shown me by saving my life; but I cannot escape to the mountains, lest some evil overtake me and I die. See now, this city is near enough to flee to, and it is a little one; please let me escape there ( is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.” And he said to him, “See, I have favored you concerning this thing also, in that I will not overthrow this city for which you have spoken. Hurry, escape there. For I cannot do anything until you arrive there.” Therefore the name of the city was called Zoar. The sun had risen upon the earth when Lot entered Zoar. Then the LORD rained brimstone and fire on Sodom and Gomorrah, from the LORD out of the heavens. So He overthrew those cities, all the plain, all the inhabitants of the cities, and what grew on the ground. But his wife looked back behind him, and she became a pillar of salt. And Abraham went early in the morning to the place where he had stood before the LORD. Then he looked toward Sodom and Gomorrah, and toward all the land of the plain; and he saw, and behold, the smoke of the land which went up like the smoke of a furnace. And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, that God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow, when He overthrew the cities in which Lot had dwelt.”
**Genesis‬ *19:1-29‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/gen.19.1-29.nkjv



God’s Wrath On Unrighteousness

“For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Professing to be wise, they became fools, and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things. Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.”
**Romans‬ *1:18-32‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/rom.1.18-32.nkjv
And it causes people to be gay or lesbian or homosexual and it usually doesn’t result in children. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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you hate same sex marriage, huh? what's so bad about it, bby.
On the prowl for a new luvver?
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My religion doesn’t believe in it as the Bible says “Homosexuality verses in the Bible

Sodom’s Depravity

“Now the two angels came to Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gate of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to meet them, and he bowed himself with his face toward the ground. And he said, “Here now, my lords, please turn in to your servant’s house and spend the night, and wash your feet; then you may rise early and go on your way.” And they said, “No, but we will spend the night in the open square.” But he insisted strongly; so they turned in to him and entered his house. Then he made them a feast, and baked unleavened bread, and they ate. Now before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both old and young, all the people from every quarter, surrounded the house. And they called to Lot and said to him, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we may know them carnally. ” So Lot went out to them through the doorway, shut the door behind him, and said, “Please, my brethren, do not do so wickedly! See now, I have two daughters who have not known a man; please, let me bring them out to you, and you may do to them as you wish; only do nothing to these men, since this is the reason they have come under the shadow of my roof.” And they said, “Stand back!” Then they said, “This one came in to stay here, and he keeps acting as a judge; now we will deal worse with you than with them.” So they pressed hard against the man Lot, and came near to break down the door. But the men reached out their hands and pulled Lot into the house with them, and shut the door. And they struck the men who were at the doorway of the house with blindness, both small and great, so that they became weary trying to find the door. Then the men said to Lot, “Have you anyone else here? Son-in-law, your sons, your daughters, and whomever you have in the city— take them out of this place! For we will destroy this place, because the outcry against them has grown great before the face of the LORD, and the LORD has sent us to destroy it.” So Lot went out and spoke to his sons-in-law, who had married his daughters, and said, “Get up, get out of this place; for the LORD will destroy this city!” But to his sons-in-law he seemed to be joking. When the morning dawned, the angels urged Lot to hurry, saying, “Arise, take your wife and your two daughters who are here, lest you be consumed in the punishment of the city.” And while he lingered, the men took hold of his hand, his wife’s hand, and the hands of his two daughters, the LORD being merciful to him, and they brought him out and set him outside the city. So it came to pass, when they had brought them outside, that he said, “Escape for your life! Do not look behind you nor stay anywhere in the plain. Escape to the mountains, lest you be destroyed.” Then Lot said to them, “Please, no, my lords! Indeed now, your servant has found favor in your sight, and you have increased your mercy which you have shown me by saving my life; but I cannot escape to the mountains, lest some evil overtake me and I die. See now, this city is near enough to flee to, and it is a little one; please let me escape there ( is it not a little one?) and my soul shall live.” And he said to him, “See, I have favored you concerning this thing also, in that I will not overthrow this city for which you have spoken. Hurry, escape there. For I cannot do anything until you arrive there.” Therefore the name of the city was called Zoar. The sun had risen upon the earth when Lot entered Zoar. Then the LORD rained brimstone and fire on Sodom and Gomorrah, from the LORD out of the heavens. So He overthrew those cities, all the plain, all the inhabitants of the cities, and what grew on the ground. But his wife looked back behind him, and she became a pillar of salt. And Abraham went early in the morning to the place where he had stood before the LORD. Then he looked toward Sodom and Gomorrah, and toward all the land of the plain; and he saw, and behold, the smoke of the land which went up like the smoke of a furnace. And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, that God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow, when He overthrew the cities in which Lot had dwelt.”
**Genesis‬ *19:1-29‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/gen.19.1-29.nkjv

“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination.”
**Leviticus‬ *18:22‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/lev.18.22.nkjv

“If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them.”
**Leviticus‬ *20:13‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/lev.20.13.nkjv

““A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman’s garment, for all who do so are an abomination to the LORD your God.”
**Deuteronomy‬ *22:5‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/deu.22.5.nkjv

“As they were enjoying themselves, suddenly certain men of the city, perverted men, surrounded the house and beat on the door. They spoke to the master of the house, the old man, saying, “Bring out the man who came to your house, that we may know him carnally! ””
**Judges‬ *19:22‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/jdg.19.22.nkjv

“For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness, because what may be known of God is manifest in them, for God has shown it to them. For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse, because, although they knew God, they did not glorify Him as God, nor were thankful, but became futile in their thoughts, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Professing to be wise, they became fools, and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man—and birds and four-footed animals and creeping things. Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves, who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen. For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.”
**Romans‬ *1:18-32‬ *NKJV‬‬
https://www.bible.com/114/rom.1.18-32.nkjv
And it causes people to be gay or lesbian or homosexual and it usually doesn’t result in children. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
god made me gay sooo he must be really happy when I sleep with other men
also wasn't like jesus gay too, constantly hanging around men and stuff.
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god made me gay sooo he must be really happy when other men **** me
also wasn't like jesus gay too, constantly hanging around men and whatnot.
and the whole ‘amen’ thing sounds awfully similar to ‘ah men’ - jesus deffo had a thing goin on
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On the prowl for a new luvver?
yeah, totally. aren't religious men supposed to be oh so kind and caring
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god made me gay sooo he must be really happy when other men **** me
also wasn't like jesus gay too, constantly hanging around men and stuff.
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and the whole ‘amen’ thing sounds awfully similar to ‘ah men’ - jesus deffo had a thing goin on
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yeah, totally. aren't religious men supposed to be oh so kind and caring
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Yes, He was hanging round men and he had 12 disciples who were men but he also had a girlfriend called Mary Magdalene so I wouldn’t say he was gay. He meaning God isn’t happy at all when people become gay even though they may be born with that condition because of what the Bible says and it causes people to be gay or lesbian or homosexual and it usually doesn’t result in children.

Ay-men does sound similar to Ah men, I agree with you. Jesus definitely had a thing going on yes otherwise why was he hanging around men.

I am so kind and caring.

Is prowl another word for search then? Yes, I am searching for a lover/girlfriend/future wife.

Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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Yes, He was hanging round men and he had 12 disciples who were men but he also had a girlfriend called Mary Magdalene so I wouldn’t say he was gay. He meaning God isn’t happy at all when people become gay even though they may be born with that condition because of what the Bible says and it causes people to be gay or lesbian or homosexual and it usually doesn’t result in children.

Ay-men does sound similar to Ah men, I agree with you. Jesus definitely had a thing going on yes otherwise why was he hanging around men.

I am so kind and caring.

Is prowl another word for search then? Yes, I am searching for a lover/girlfriend/future wife.

Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
being gay isn't a "condition". it's not a ****ing illness.
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Like the month of her birthday or an easy to spell name? Having fewer rules would make it easier
With the month of her birthday one, I did say if not my children will so if she doesn’t have a birthday in November or June or February then I will make sure my children do by making her become pregnant at the right times for that to happen.

An easy to spell name, just means that she must have a woman’s name that the spelling of it is easily guessable from the pronunciation of it unlike mine as that is very hard to spell because people don’t hear the ch or the ae plus I am not a woman, If her first name was also hard to spell from its pronunciation, I might have to ask her how to spell her name correctly every time I need to do that until I have learnt the correct way to spell her name off by heart. With easy to spell names, I wouldn’t have to do that because the correct spelling would be easily guessable from the pronunciation so I would always spell it correctly. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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being gay isn't a "condition". it's not a ****ing illness.
Thanks for telling me that. Thanks and Best wishes From Michael.
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